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I told her that i do not LJBF with her but she insisted to talk at least once a month in order to keep contact.
In other words: I want to keep the emotional validation you offer me, until im strong enough to completely move on or until I find someone else to give it to me.
Its a safety net OP. And it will only last up until she had found a quality replacement.
Im still unsure as to why you guys can not be together, but what exactly is talking once a month going to do for you? If you see something you can gain from that then by all means, but it sounds more like a one sided way for her to keep a portion of you until she no longer needs it.
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