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Fast Foward 3 months, she always tells me that the sex great and I even made her orgasm a few times.
It needs to be every time.
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But where I'm most confused is she doesn't want a relationship but yet we hang out like if we are a couple and even go on dates and make out, I totally feel it when we're hanging out. She's even mention of meeting her parents in the future.
Mixed emotions. That's women for you.
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How can I get her to chase me? Or I want to get her to tell me where we stand
No, just no.
You aren't dating. She has never brought up exclusivity, in fact, you've informed me in this thread she's said she "doesn't want a relationship", which tells me you already had "the talk" with her. These kinds of "Debbie Downer" talks are probably what made her pull away from you.
And now you want to do it again?
"Finding out where you stand" is what insecure and emotionally-uncentered men do. And it drives women away.
A man who is centered, chill, fit, playful, good in bed, and fearless of rejection lives from day to day, and enjoys the moment. He does not corral a woman...because he doesn't have to. His dominant behavior has them obsessed with him.
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I get pretty lazy to go out and sarge because I think of her most of the time. But honestly for me I want to end it. I jokingly told her that I wasn't going to have sex anymore and she said I was being mean.
So weak.
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What should I do? I think I should keep seeing her until she brings it up? That's what I have been reading and seems like it's the route to take but she hides her feelings she won't confess, she even told me she hides her feelings.
Do you know why a girl hides her feelings? Because she doesn't feel safe with you. Yet. She's still got her toe in the water on you.
Things that will make a woman not feel safe: emotionally-uncentered men, men who contact them constantly, neurotic men, negative men.
And honestly she may just not have feelings for you like you do her. I've found that women like this are "solved" in the bedroom by leading and dominating in bed. Passionate, really hard fucking...as hard as you can, and giving orgasms. Act like a dominant male in all facets, and women will be horrified when you don't text them for 12 hours.
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So far I already tried to get her jealous but that didn't work, she posted a status on social media and said some "boy" tied to get her jealous but she doesn't feel the same way.
This woman is more emotionally-centered than you, and more emotionally intelligent.
You are acting like the woman, and she the dominant male.
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We last spoke yesterday and I was kind of being and jerk and told her she should have sex with other guys she can't just be having sex with me all the time. I'm not sure at this point I feel like having sex and then asking where we stand.
Neurotic. Weak.
Learn to control your emotions and stop acting weak. Show some fucking self-awareness and look at the world. Go to cnn.com and read the news. have the brain-power to step outside of yourself for a few minutes. And then fucking ask yourself WHAT'S THE PROBLEM? You have a cute girl who is having sex with you.
What is the problem?
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We have created memerable moments together
Jesus christ.
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experience she would never forget she said she was a "good girl" until she met me, she also said she doesn't wanna have sex with other guys just me? I feel like for some reason she wants more but just isn't there yet.
She's not there yet because you're acting like a boy and not a man.
Stop having all these negative talks. Ratio should be 90/10 fun to negative or 95/5.
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Luckliy I turn 21 this weekend and will have plenty of females on my Snap Chat stories maybe she'll get jealous then but has failed before
Whoever has been through this or know what I should do plz help I'll bow down to your knees.
Don't bow down to anyone. Act like a man. Be happy in the moment, focus on your career.