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Author:  NewbieCasanova [ Sun Jan 29, 2017 4:29 pm ]
Post subject:  She asked what relationship i want. Wants more deep convo??

After several dates (1 month of time together), this girl decided to ask me where it's going and how i felt about her. I was told to not initiate this topic unless the girl does first. And so i waited and now she asked. I told her "i prefer an exclusive relationship, that's what i want. What you want may differ and that's fine." She told me she doesnt know yet and needs time. We fucked a ton already. What's your guys take on this?

She talked about how we haven't dug much into deep conversations and topics. I was told that she doesn't know much about my childhood and my past life, though I've told her about my self-development journey. Is that not enough? What are some ways for me to resolve this?

Author:  JackZero [ Sun Jan 29, 2017 5:08 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: She asked what relationship i want. Wants more deep conv

We may have done you a disservice by not making it clear if you received that advice on this forum. You should let the girl bring up that she wants a relationship first.

Author:  R.C [ Sun Jan 29, 2017 5:33 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: She asked what relationship i want. Wants more deep conv

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We may have done you a disservice by not making it clear if you received that advice on this forum. You should let the girl bring up that she wants a relationship first.
This.

Author:  NewbieCasanova [ Sun Jan 29, 2017 5:37 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: She asked what relationship i want. Wants more deep conv

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We may have done you a disservice by not making it clear if you received that advice on this forum. You should let the girl bring up that she wants a relationship first.
This.
If that's the case. Does it mean i ruined this one? Lol.

What should I have said if she asked "where is this going"?

Author:  R.C [ Sun Jan 29, 2017 6:07 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: She asked what relationship i want. Wants more deep conv

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If that's the case. Does it mean i ruined this one? Lol.
No. But you did tell her exactly where she stands. As Jack said, uncertainty creates attraction. Not much uncertainty left there now.
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What should I have said if she asked "where is this going"?
We'll see.

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