my ex of 2.5 years and i broke up almost a month ago, we lived together and there were various reasons why we broke up, she told me she needed to clear her head i moved out the nex day then returned to spend a few days with her packing. Everything ended very civily so it ended on good terms. She told me she needed to wait till after her grad school semester to clear her head and think about things between us. In the meantime after I moved out I got accepted into graduate school so I had a big life changing experience happening now. Our aniversary is upcoming I was going to send her flowers but wasnt sure if that would be not a good idea because we are broken up. She said she would contact me after her semester was over and she cleared her head. Its possible she said she may want to get back together. I thought maybe just not responding to any of her texts from this point forward. Giving her the silent SPAM.

Don't send an ex an anniversary gift. She's an ex.

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Anniversary of what? You're not together anymore.

Also OP, learn to never take these types of promises seriously. If she calls, cool. If not, your life should already be at a point where it doesn't even matter anymore.

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You don't buy an anniversary present for that, you cum on another girl's face. And ironically, going on a fun hook-up spree is probably what will get the ex back. And by then, you'll probably find someone better.

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I would probably fuck ten girls, train for a half marathon, and go to the shooting range at least once a month.

And still feel alone jerking off vigorously to online porn as tears roll down your face.

Very weird response.

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I think you have to ask yourself first. Do you want to continue loving her? If yes, then work on it to get her back. It must be first affirmed in your mind - "I want her back!" and your actions will just follow through. Just be firmed though. There will always be challenges, nevertheless, you will go through with it because your mind said so!

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What kind of advice is this? She wanted to break up and you are saying to make a conscious decision with a mantra to continue to love her and follow through on getting her back. The OP didn't even say why they broke up and that's something that should be known before you start giving advice like this.

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Hey! Thanks for reacting to my comment but my main point is, I did ask him if he still love her right? That, whatever reasons they might have, the essence is if he still do, then it's worth taking all the efforts to make it work. There is really no perfect relationship. It's how we handle things make it right. Have a good day!

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That's my problem with your post. It's terrible advice without knowing the situation. There are so many reasons that the breakup could happen and just because you love someone isn't an excuse for doing something stupid. Love isn't justification. Love doesn't keep her from leaving again if she does come back. We, as men, need to get out of the "fix it" mentality if we're not the ones that mess things up. Pay close attention to what the OP said...SHE wanted to leave and you're saying that she made a decision to leave, he should do everything to fix it if he loves her. Do you realize how stupid that is? Do you realize the precedent that's being set by chasing the person that leaves instead of working things out? This would put in her mind that it's okay for her to get up and leave at the slightest amount of displeasure and because he loves her enough, he'll always try to win her back. What you're saying is great for romantic stories but it isn't healthy for real life. If she leaves him then she should be the one trying to get him back.

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