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So I started seeing this 32yr Brazilian woman 5-6 months ago. At the time both of us made it clear that we didn't want to be anything more than friends with benefits or a fling, as she had separated and started a new job and as I was transitioning with other things and dealing with fallout from a family financial matter... nonetheless she persisted in blowing up my phone and computer and would say we are "dating"...And She would flip out when I wouldn't see her three or more days a week.. I am 26yrs so there's it's very improbable that anything could happen... anyway she use to be more respectful to me but since I told her I needed space because I was going through something she has changed her tone....While we have little in common, I know she on many occassions tells me how funny iam or how good I am in bed... (((that's the only connection))
Anyway lately she's been texting calling and telling me about all the guys that ask her out.. she's also made superficial comments about my life even though I've made more money than her in the past and played sports professionally for a bit.... we stopped seeing each other for two weeks and she wanted to bring it to my attention that she hooked up with two guys.... In my opinion, even if you're in a open relationship are dating it's low class or bad manners to state this to someone; it's assumed... at other times she will call me and tell me she care and wants to know what's up or tell me how I'm the best in bed....despite the fact that she's hot and I can share a laugh, I'm starting to think this not worth the disrespect and craziness.... (((In my opinion FWB only lasts for a month or two after 5-6 months it's a open relationship or dating)))
Anyway I would appreciate some thoughts
I honestly don't understand the point of this post. It seems you already answered your own inquiry. Obviously, she's acting out to gain your attention. Obviously, you're not responding well to it. Obviously, you've already discovered that the juice isn't worth the squeeze.
What's the question here? So you banged an older chick. Good job. Hope it was nice. But now there's clearly nothing more to move forward on, so why are you thinking about it? You yourself said nothing would be moving forward. If she feels otherwise, it's your responsibility to correct her.
Either A: You want to cut clean and both go separate ways--guilt free
Or B: You want to keep fucking her, because hey... who doesn't love pussy? But dude.. even if you tell her you want nothing more than fuck buddies, and she agrees... she's already put herself on display too much. She's already shown that she digs you more than you dig her. If you agree to fuck buddy status, there will be a guilt factor. Regardless of how cool she tries to play it--she's just working her own game to reel in a younger fish, by whatever means necessary.
So she tells you you're the best in bed? Of course she does. What is she gonna do? Tell you that you're "eh, somewhere in the middle..."? No. Girls... no scratch that--WOMEN--which is what you're dealing with--know how to stroke a male ego. Don't let it get to your head.
-Derron Fox