So I started seeing this 32yr Brazilian woman 5-6 months ago. At the time both of us made it clear that we didn't want to be anything more than friends with benefits or a fling, as she had separated and started a new job and as I was transitioning with other things and dealing with fallout from a family financial matter... nonetheless she persisted in blowing up my phone and computer and would say we are "dating"...And She would flip out when I wouldn't see her three or more days a week.. I am 26yrs so there's it's very improbable that anything could happen... anyway she use to be more respectful to me but since I told her I needed space because I was going through something she has changed her tone....While we have little in common, I know she on many occassions tells me how funny iam or how good I am in bed... (((that's the only connection))

Anyway lately she's been texting calling and telling me about all the guys that ask her out.. she's also made superficial comments about my life even though I've made more money than her in the past and played sports professionally for a bit.... we stopped seeing each other for two weeks and she wanted to bring it to my attention that she hooked up with two guys.... In my opinion, even if you're in a open relationship are dating it's low class or bad manners to state this to someone; it's assumed... at other times she will call me and tell me she care and wants to know what's up or tell me how I'm the best in bed....despite the fact that she's hot and I can share a laugh, I'm starting to think this not worth the disrespect and craziness.... (((In my opinion FWB only lasts for a month or two after 5-6 months it's a open relationship or dating)))

Anyway I would appreciate some thoughts

Read the bottom of the first page, if you can get back past the length. It gets more ridiculous

I'm not afraid to be alone. Gorgeous women send me messages to meet and if i like them all the time. And am aware there are a million other women out there.

I'm just amazed with how this woman ended this situation, it's like I dealt with a dr jekyll and mr hyde...

I should have listened your advice eddie. I should have cut communication with this woman completely even as a friend

She is completely playing games and having a power trip at the situation

" because you love me, and want me all for yourself"

"are you ready for a serious relationship?" later she said "oh that was a general question"

She asked me via email if she could come to a pro sporting event with me when I didn't invite her. To which I responded "maybe I'll see you around". Yeah I'm so desperate((sarcasm))

If you only want sex and she wants a relationship it will only going to lead into drama.
Better go and find sex with someone else.

Women,we aren't that indecisive as you think. 9 out of 10 times we want a relationship... unless we are not into a guy. Sometimes we say it since the beginning , some other times we say the opposite because we are afraid we are going to make the guy feel scared.. Due to hormones, sometimes after having sex with a guy for a long time we get emotionally attached with him. If there was initial attraction then we might fall in love. If not then we just love him.
If we only love him and we aren't in love we might dump him if we find someone we fall in love. If we are in love we don't usually try to see if the grass is greener.

Why you don't trust her anymore?

It's physical
Only logical
You must try to ignore that it means more than that ooo
What's love got to do, got to do with it
What's love but a second hand emotion
What's love got to do, got to do with it