Well... rather than giving it time, which I think would be a bad idea, I initiated contact by confiding in her 'Hey, I've got no one else to turn to her. I really trust you. Can I talk to you? It's really important... can you keep this between us etc'
She was like 'Yeah' So I started 'My friend is going down a dark path blah blah blah I'm really worried blah blah blah I don't know what to do'
at first she was very unresponsive 'bribe with food'
so i waited a few hours and then changed the subject, slowly delving into normal conversation 'so how have you been keeping anyways blah blah blah'
'fine blah blah blah how are you'
'i've been better'
'why what's wrong'
'blah blah blah confide confide gibber gabber build trust'
eventually i broke and said something like 'I miss you. I know you don't miss me, so I'm not going to lecture you, or beg for your forgiveness. All I'm saying is, I miss you.'
She replied 'we're friends ok' which tbh I took as good, because, well, we weren't so thats a start, right? anyway things were looking pretty up from there. i said goodnight etc. but then I did something a bit rash. I gave her my facebook password. I was like, look, I think you might want to see this, start to trust me again etc.
'why would i even'
word for word i said 'when i was trying to get you back, i guess you can see that i was being genuine. i really did try haha. I don't think you believed me, but there ya go'
no reply for 10 minutes, I sent ':)' and no reply, as expected.
NOW GUYS, from here, I'm considering whether to leave it for a few days, or initiate talking to her again by confiding in her etc.
I don't know whether giving her my facebook password came across as a bit desperate or not, but its meant to gain her trust, it was on facebook that she saw that i was doing things with another girl so that girl is blocked.
What do you think she will do? Should I try talking to her again soon? How long will it be before she trusts me enough get back together?
stay tuned, your comments and suggestions are much appreciated