What do you do when your girl doesnt have the sex drive that you dont have?

I have a high fuckin sex drive and its too much for my girl... i love her , but it pisses me off hearing my girl say no..... we do it at least 2-3 times a week but im horny every day and jacking off just doesnt do it for me..

I ask for a sweet kissy ( blow job lol ) when shes not in the mood for sex, but she comes up with some shit ( i dont feel like it, my head hurts blah blah)...everything else is pretty much perfect except for the sex part.... i feel like im not being satisfied fully.

I know its not physical because i look good and im pretty fit.. i hit the gym every other day so this is no problem.... she genuinely isnt horny everyday like i am...
wtf am i supposed to do?!

It pisses me off and i hate acting like it doesnt, so its noticeable when she says no... tonight for example im feeling like shit and starting escalating... she kept declining but i kept persisting, and it lead no where... i chilled with her for another 10 mins and left because staying with her was pissing me off... i said thank you sarcastically and left....

Is there a solution to this? besides finding another girl or jacking off? lol

Required reading:

$M on Ownership
http://www.pua-zone.com/showthread.php? ... #post27844

Original post he references
http://www.pua-zone.com/showthread.php? ... rtance-of-

Now, seriously.. to help you we need to know a LOT more information. The main question on our minds is.. is it because the sex is bad / boring? This is all on you. As the guy, you are required to initiate sex, be good enough to give her orgasms, and provide as much variety as possible (toys, positions, speed, types of orgasms, light bondage, etc). How long do you typically last? How is the foreplay.. do you go down on her before you have sex? Are you dominant in bed? Do you talk dirty to her during sex?

You see what I'm getting at here?

Second, what are her fantasies? Have you created a non-judgmental environment where she'd feel comfortable telling you about her vampire cos-play play-rape fantasy (etc)? Are you helping fulfill those fantasies? This is where the good communication comes in. Don't talk about the problems.. talk about preferences and turn-ons. She's not going to volunteer this stuff.. you need to get her to open up about it.

Lastly, are there any other possible contributing factors we should know about? For example, are either of you stressed out, prone to depression, or just unwell in any way? Oh, and this is important, how often do you see each other? How often do you text / talk on the phone on a daily basis?

-Wolf

I just wrote a good reply to this in a very similar thread last week.

It's essentially the same thing Chefguy is talking about. You should read the whole thread: how-often-do-you-have-sex-with-your-gf-vt147215.html

Here's another link to a post my girlfriend wrote about why guys nearly all suck in bed: http://polygoodgirl.livejournal.com/14276.html I don't necessarily advocate getting relationship advice from women, but my girlfriend is a playette and she knows what she's talking about.

Hopefully, some of that is helpful. At the very least, read the first link. $M probably addresses the issue way better than I ever could.

-Wolf

I would have to agree that you may not be satisfying her sexually. And I believe it's a real turn off to be asked for sexual favors and then have you get pissy when she says no. Sex is supposed to be a mutual experience.

There is something you can do about it because the most likely cause of your problem is that you don't know how to "receive" in a way that makes her want to give.

Be prepared to get dumped.

Maybe it's because you are as annoying in person as you are in this thread.

It is more useful than you realize

i think you missed the part when i said she convulses for minutes after im done with her lol

but your right about the asking part.... it still live and learn