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I really like the sarge and kudos for putting it up to be criticised.
I can see this working in the later stages of a hook up but honestly i feel like the girl was pretty creeped out by it, and your tone almost came across as sneaky.
I like Ross's stuff and am keen on NLP but i think its about adding bits in when you need them and using normal fluff talk on them aswell.
Great job with the patterns though, they were perfect and i'll definitely be using some of this stuff on day 2's.
Thanks for checking it out. As far as my tone, others have said it was good and others have said it was not good. So, I'm not sure..but, I do know one thing...
I'm going to PAUSE MORE. One guy on the SS list gave me a really good suggestion. He told me that when he practiced, he paused to the point where it felt uncomfortable to him just so that he could get used to it. I'm going to experiment with that strategy. I thought for sure I was already stretching my pauses...but, it seems..that I still need to stretch it even further (according to sargers who exclusively use Speed Seduction).
Did you hear how I mirrored back some of her trance words?? Ha ha ha...I LOVE doing that. I even mirrored back her sounds.....it's just TOO easy sometimes..especially if you ask them that seduction question and they participate with the imagination game. Once they buy into it, you get trance words galore and other useful responses. If they DON'T buy into it, then, that's where the problem is. You have a couple of options: 1. Go sarge someone else (can't get blood from a rock), 2. Play a game/quiz with her, 3. Bring up a different theme...you can also try and challenge her to participate by setting challenge frames to try and increase the chances of her going along with the imagination game.
When I was doing the Discovery Channel Pattern, she said "anticipation" and I mirrored it back also. But, one good suggestion I got from a guy on puagathering.com was to fractionate in between the Imagination Game and the Discovery Channel Pattern and quite frankly, I agree with his assessment on that. When I was doing the imagination game with this girl, she got like REALLY into it and she only knew me for like less than 2 minutes. Some part of her was probably on guard because she didn't know me that long yet she was having a good response. What I should've done in between the Discovery Channel and the Imagination Game was fractionate. I should've talked about something not so intense..something that sounds normal maybe. And, then go into the next pattern.