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A little pattern i made

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New-Dawn
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A little pattern i made

Post by New-Dawn » Wed Sep 14, 2016 6:38 am

I read this bs girl power message on my facebook feed that read something like this: the difference between a woman and a girl: a woman goes after what she wants, while a girl waits for it to fall from the sky.

I thought that's a good starting point for a "go for it" pattern, and here it goes. Keep in mind that it's a translation.

Initiate by talking about this thing that i read, and i give the quote. She says yeah, maybe, whatever. She will most likely say it's true, because of course they all want to be seen as strong women :p

Then "So it means that when you are talking with someone, and you feel attracted, you just give up all the anxiety and whatever things that might stop other women from going after what they want, and you just go for it, knowing that it's good for you and you don't want to pass up on great opportunities."

I think it's good because it describes the way she would like to be, it comes across as if i'm interpreting her own thoughts and trying to understand, and of course it's meant to make her far more likely to accept whatever you want her to accept: give number, come on a date, watch a movie at your place, preemptive last minute resistance destroyer, etc.

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Re: A little pattern i made

Post by Aqualol » Wed Sep 14, 2016 8:51 am

This is very interesting indeed, but I feel like unless you pull it perfectly she may feel manipulated if she's smart enough.

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Re: A little pattern i made

Post by New-Dawn » Wed Sep 21, 2016 5:12 am

Aqualol wrote:This is very interesting indeed, but I feel like unless you pull it perfectly she may feel manipulated if she's smart enough.
The pattern itself is just an example, you can say it in any way you want, it's just an excuse to use those commands or any other that promote self confidence, courage, etc.

The tone of your voice, eye contact and intensity are the difference IMO. Said in an innocent, inquisitive way without staring her down makes it fairly natural and there's no reason to be seen as manipulative, not by itself anyway.

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Re: A little pattern i made

Post by BSN » Mon Sep 26, 2016 1:43 pm

I was going to post a topic on designing your own patterns as that's what ideally I'm looking to do with SS. I enjoyed your example @New-Dawn. Thanks.

As for my topic, it was basically the same idea, taking things and using their context as a means of using commands. The fluidity of Speed Seduction seems a possibility to me. You've done it here.
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