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I am about 60% through Ross Jefferies SS tapes. I understand the messages he is giving and what he is saying....... but I don't know where to begin.
Like, I need a template to begin with. He gives examples of questions to ask "Have you ever found yourself very attracted to someone?" "When was the last time you were very attracted to someone?" but how do you get to the point where you can ask that and it seems natural?
Also, I am just starting. Should I be learning openings first or something?
i had the exact same issue that you have my friend. My recommendation to you is ignore Ross jeffries material as a newbie. Start off with Igor ledochowski's Conversational hypnosis home study course. This will give you a foundation in NLP/SS.
Then you can start to incorporate the things learned in Igor's course in your normal every day conversation. Once you're comfortable doing that then you can look into RJ's materials where you can get some really great SS examples and ideas.