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Ok, I wish I had watched this video a few weeks ago. I just bought the material and reading through it ASAP. but...
I hit up a bartender by telling her I thought she was beautiful. The next time around she tells me I have the most beautiful eyes. The rest of the night we playfully flirted with each other. I asked for her number when she broke in with I have a boyfriend. Typically, i walk away but as I said that's cool, she interrupted me. "...but it isn't working out. I don't think I'll be him longer." So I got her number....
Since then we've had some good interactions but I cannot seal a date with her. She's asked me for lunch twice and canceled on me both times. I didn't make a big deal of it and told her it wasn't a big deal. The last time I saw her at the bar we hung out in her car after she closed the bar up. It was great, I gave her a hand massage, she shared a bunch of personal stuff about herself. She went on and on about why she likes me...so WTF?!?!?!?!
What should I do? And what am I doing wrong. Is she feeling guilty? What do I need to do to get her go out with me and dump her boy. It gets worse, she lives with the bf, she's supposedly looking to move. I don't think I can wait till her situaition is resolved, so how can I do it that she breaks up with him anyway?
It sounds like to me that you're jumping through her hoops. She has made times to be with you and then cancelled and then you just let it slide with out saying much. It seems like you're trying to be AFC by giving her all of yourself.
Instead you should try being more elusive. Don't always be around when she calls or texts. Perhaps cancel a date or two on her. I'm not sure what to do about the boyfriend situation though.