Training: Have a stack of physical routines that you must run in every interaction:
1) Hand shake spin
- Introduce yourself, offer a hand shake, raise her hand and spin her. If she doesn't comply you spin yourself.
2) Finger Lock.
- Inter lace fingers with hers ... don't ask permission ... just do it while talking.
3) Spin Hug
- Go to grab a girl, lift her up, and spin.
- Don't ask permission.
4) Prom dance: just tell her let's dance ... it's prom night .. and start dancing like it is prom night.
5) Neck bite
The point of this lists is to go physical with out asking for permission .... just do it.
Train to immediately go physical from the opener.
- Kino is what makes an interaction man to woman ... no kino is friend to friend.
The best way to establish man to woman is to close the distance between each other and be physical right away.
- You open, offer a hand shake ... when she grabs it ... pull her close to you ... wrap her hand around your neck ... and wrap your hand around her waist ....
- It is important that you stay relax and calm ... acting like it is not a big deal ... through experience of doing this over and over again ... it will not be a big deal and it will become natural.
- Then just continue to interact while you guys are face to face ... hugging each other.
The longer you wait to go physical ... the harder it will be to do as time passes by ... therefore, do it immediately right off the opener.
Thanks a lot Donston, I will try those out!