Alright what's up folks so here's another story of my vertiginous trip throughout the female mind.
So I'm a social gathering, an event where people met when they're struggling for a common cause, you know fundraiser type. Anyhow I saw this very attractive female during one of the speeches I gaze at her she gazes back we have a little non-verbal interaction and whatnot.
After that I decided to approach her, there was like a good rapport nice conversation jokes back and forth everything pretty smoothly. At the end somebody else was calling her she had to take off I got her phone number and we ended the conversation with a little hug and everything. But here's the catch during the conversation she mentioned her "boyfriend" and as a good PUA apprentice I disregarded that mention and continue as it nothing happened. Oh one detail she from another city like 1 hour from my hometown.
So applying some of the PUA rules that teach us not to lose momentum you know take the advantage created during the initial encounter, I decided to give her a call the same day so that "she could have my number and say hello all the while"
Anyhow I wouldn't say the conversation went particularly well she was a little more distant that in person I applied some of the techniques like playing the "I don't know if you're interesting thing" like you know trying to not sound like the scores of guys that must hit on her daily, like kissing her ass and the like, I acted rather disinterested and trying to play the "make HER chase" me game.
So, that was the call, then she calls me again like one hour later asking me to help her boyfriend to decide wether he was a good candidate for an MBA or not, since I already have that degree she said that if I could sit with him for a couple of minutes to give him some advice and whatnot, here comes the trouble at first I didn't know how to react I was frankly baffled what the heck is the matter with this woman asking me favors for her boyfriend. (Yeah I know she doesn't belong to me, this shouldn't be a trouble for me to give the guy some help, but I got an ego that sometimes I cannot keep under control)
So I reacted as follows: I told her I didn't have the time I was pretty busy that I'll text her to let her know when I have the time. Then she started telling me how good her boyfriend was how much of a gentleman he was and whatnot, now by this point I was starting to get a little pissed off, why do I care about this, alright I got the point you love him he is superman but why are you telling me these things (I DIDN'T SAY THAT BUT THAT WAS WHAT I WAS THINKING)
Then I told her after she finished touting the guy that he sounded boring, she started to tell me he wasn't boring that he was cool and whatnot. Then just out of curiosity I asked her how long have you been dating this guy, she says TWO WEEKS, then I told her "two weeks and you already know he's not boring" anyhow from that point and onwards the conversation went downwards and she told me she had to go.
So, what do you think guys? I don't know my gut feeling is that I acted inadequately but you know every man has an ego and so do I, throw a little testosterone in the mix and you get situations like this, but what was I supposed to do? Tell her sure I'll give your little boyfriend some coaching so he can relax at nights screwing you? What am I, a fool? There you have it testosterone speaking again
Let this post serve as a testimony for my fellow PUA apprentices so that if any of you face a similar situation at least you're aware of what is coming to you, let this post also allow some of the more experience members of our community as an example for they to provide some feedback when faced with a similar situation. as for me and this girl I know she is lost but some others like her surely will come!