So, I really have a thing for Chinese girls. I'm talking about girls who came here (UK) to study in the last 1-5 years, age usually between 20 and 25.
I think, I have good chances with Chinese girls for these reasons:
- I'm very driven in terms of my studies and my career and I have the impression that Chinese girls like that (at least rather than European or British girls)
- I'm blond and rather skinny but very fit - I have been told that many Chinese girls like blond guys.
Do you guys agree with these two points?
skinny is better than fat, big frame, athletic and some muscles is even better. (nothing new here)
if you are handsome in their eyes, blond is a advantage, but they sometimes just aren't hot for a non chinese man at all.
My problem is to read Chinese girls. They are usually much more friendly than Europeans no matter if they have a deeper interest in you or not. Also, it seems to me that in terms of dating they usually do not take any steps towards you. All the initiative has to come from the guy.
And: they tend to be more conservative and less willing to just sleep with a guy.
Again, do you agree with this?
So, what's the best way of hooking up with Chinese girls? Which kind of dates do you ask them out for. What's you strategy for "making a move" on them? Do you guys have any good stories regarding Chinese chicks?
strategy: best is to get into their circle of friends first.
basic PUA rules often apply for chinese too*. be a wee more gentlemanly than with EU girls and don't be stingy. just saying that, because for chinese, not having to spend much money comes with having a good time. they're just a little more money oriented than EU chicks. but buying them drinks and food is not a "pass" into bed, it just sort of belongs to "good manners".
going out to dance in a club that isn't shabby, with the popular electro-house music playing, shoud do it.
ps: *be upbeat ,kino, DHV, dress smart not shabby. better err on safe side than go for speed seduction, friend zones are not as terminal as with eu chicks.