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So this daygame thing; I've been doing it alot lately and I wanted to share what I've learned.
Confidence is required, if you feel bad about your self or not intitled to the women you are after, then work on that first. Work on your inner game, and get required confidence. Confidence is absolute in pick-up and without it you won't get anywhere.
Many an AFC strolls around looking for HB's to game, then get scared and decides not to approach. In order for you to learn, this cowardice needs to stop. So get out of your comfort zone and actually talk to girls. That way you get better at talking to girls, hence the saying: practice makes perfect.
As for the opening, I don't use a canned opener, a routine, a neg (Okay occasionaly if it's called for ) but a compliment.
I few things I've learned about compliments:
1. The less attractive the receiver, the more joyful the response
2. A compliment from a stranger takes one by surprise
3. A compliment from a stranger is received better than from someone whom you are already familiar with
4. A sincere compliment works better than an insincere compliment, so compliment her on whatever makes your eye dwell upon her, not what you think she will want to hear
Let me present to you, an example of getting a conversation initiated with a girl:
PUA: "I really wanted to talk to you because -(insert sincere compliment)"
And BOOM, conversation initiated.
Next step is to escalate, if you don't lead the conversation towards your endgame you will soon be looking for PUA'ish things to say. That will most likely fuck your game up since you're a rookie.
So you need to consider your endgame, it could be either of the following.
- Getting her digits
- Setting up a date
- Taking her on an instant date
- Fucking her in the nearest convenient space
So say you are in a situation where you have a girl's undivided attention, and you know your endgame. You now need to communicate with her in a way, so that your endgame seems like a perfectly good idea to her.
You do this with 3 weapons of communication
Calibration - Be on the lookout for her body language and IOI's, adjust to it and respond accordingly. Women are from natures side 10 times better at reading body language than men, so you have to be focused.
Physical escalation - Kino, her body intrigue you which is why you can't help yourself from touching her. Kino with your endgame in mind, and in accordance to the situation.
Verbal escalation - Verbalize your endgame
... the worst thing that can happen is she will get flattered and turn you down cause she have a boyfriend. If that happens you can always ask for feedback, or having her hook you up with a cute friend, now that she know how awesome you are.
I hope this will be helpful to some. You may add whatever thoughts and comments you might have.
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