Ka
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 Posted: Wed Jan 02, 2008 2:05 am Post subject: |
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I see this being somewhat biable at like a frat/college party, a house party, or some other event like this...do this at a club or a bar and you will most likely not get a good reaction imo.
If i were a women and some dude came up and put his arm around me id either be very confused or very defensive.
I would say try and come up with openers that have little to no kino, and if they do make it light kino.
Maybe adjust this opener to something like tapping/touch a girl on her elbow (yes not shoulder, this would imply your standing behind her), then go something like this.
YOU: "Hey Sarah, nice to see ya here."
THEM: "Im not Sarah."
YOU: "O wow, i guess your not. Wonder why i thought you were her...o its gotta be the (point out item of clothing). She had one just like it, must be a popular article (or name of the item you mentioned), i see girls wearing it all the time."
THEM : "Blab, Blah"
YOU : FTC
YOU: "Hey since im here now let me get your opinion on something" or "Hey you have a good energy about you, bet i could tell you a bit about yourself by..." (second one is good for cold readings if you use them).
Then just continue the convo from here. Something i have observed in myself, is the change on my veiws of social interaction and politeness. I used to ask people questions like were they work or what school they goto because i thought it was polite, especially after they ask me.
Then i realized that most people dont care to answer that question, and they themselves are only asking because they think they should or because they dont know how to start a conversation.
If you think asking something will lead to better convo try it, if they show a passion for something, a strong like/dislike for something, etc. Otherwise move on with DHV material, Stories, C&F. |
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I don't see it as a money opener. You really aren't investing a lot into a person who you think is a friend by just sitting down.
Go up to the girl and say, "Hey!" and give her a BIG HUG.
Then look at her and give a shocked look like, "OH MY GOD. I AM SO SORRY! I thought you were someone else". Proceed from there . . . |
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