Thanks, Im doing my very best to get over this. Im looking for other work, Im trying new things, hanging around with new people but because we had such amazing times together (India changed us both, it was like nothing ive ever exeprienced) Im finding it really hard.
The thing is I was needy at first, something which I managed to deal with mostly. Shes older than me (31 and im 24) and a bit of a party animal which im not, we didnt argue about it but she wanted to go out more than we could either afford due to saving for India this changed when we got back and was never a problem after.
She is very hormonal but I never took the bait when she tried to start arguments, just ignored it. Her moods didnt bother me and after she calmed down we would have amazing sex. She mentioned that I dealt with her moods better than anyone else. We didnt have one real fight, I walked out on her in India once when she was being a dick and she said it was the best thing i could have done, that was our worst fight.
She told me secrets she had only told her parents, squirted like she had never done before, said she looked and felt better than she had since her teens.
I think she is still hurting from loosing the child (she aborted it, very complicted) when all she wanted was the child. The boyfriend she terminated it 'for' lives in OZ so she cant have got back with him. She seems to hate herself for what she did for him and him leaving her.
She has told her friends that im an 'incredible person, kind, honest and the nicest man she has met', shes also told them she doesnt know why shes doing this.
She is seriously confusing and I have no idea how to get her back.
I will however do the things I love, make new friends, date new women, carry on working out, grow a huge beard (I made her love beards) and continue being my amazing self.
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