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PrettyBoy41
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 Posted: Wed Mar 12, 2008 12:55 am Post subject: VALUE |
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for some of you new guys, im going to try and break down social value for you real quick to you can get a jist of what we mean when we say demonstrate higher value (DHV) or demonstrate lower value (DLV).
Think of it like this, everytime you enter a venue, everyone including yourself has a set number of points, lets say 10.
now every time you impress someone/someones with a story, or are seen by girls with other girls, you gain points, because you are demonstrating that being WITH YOU is entertaining, therefor time someone spends with you has VALUE, your attention is VALUABLE.
now everytime someone mocks you or takes what you said out of context, you lose points, or value, because w/e happend may make you seem less fun, and thus, being in you're presence doesnt give the people around you anymore points and people will be less inclined to be with you. |
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JChapman
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| Posted: Wed Mar 12, 2008 5:33 am Post subject: Re: VALUE |
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| PrettyBoy41 wrote: | | now everytime someone mocks you or takes what you said out of context, you lose points, or value, because w/e happend may make you seem less fun. |
Actually, when someone mocks you, you don't lose value unless you react to it poorly. If you're talking to an HB and an AMOG mocks you, you won't lose value if you handle it correctly.
As an example, while you're talking to the HB an AMOG comes in and says
AMOG: Hey man, why don't you get me and her a drink?
You: No thanks, I already got one.
By pretending like you thought he was offering to get you a drink, you've DLV'd him instead of the other way around. You have to learn to handle these "interrupts" to be able to be flexible in any situation. |
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PrettyBoy41
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| Posted: Wed Mar 12, 2008 6:25 am Post subject: |
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| lol. just using an example buddy, but yes thank you, you're right. |
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JChapman
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| Posted: Wed Mar 12, 2008 6:56 am Post subject: |
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| PrettyBoy41 wrote: | | lol. just using an example buddy, but yes thank you, you're right. |
Yeah, I knew that you knew what you're talking about. =P Just making sure the newbies know. 
Also, I assume you're from the Bay Area? Where are you from? I'm from Palo Alto, but go to school in Southern CA. |
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PrettyBoy41
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| Posted: Wed Mar 12, 2008 7:16 am Post subject: |
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| oh nice im from saratoga |
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Whoopie
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| Posted: Wed Mar 12, 2008 12:41 pm Post subject: |
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AMOG: Hey man, Why don't you go get me and her a drink?
My answer: Sure, Do you want me to spit in it or piss in it? |
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