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Locke
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 Posted: Sat Jan 12, 2008 3:03 am Post subject: usless freeze out? |
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if you want to continue communication with an HB that does not qualify or comply...what do you do? Freeze out is the general answer; however, what if you have not established enough rapport and built through A3 enough to warrant her even caring/knowing she is being froze out?
If this is the case, and you freeze out then no communication will be had. What if you still want to sarge her? |
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gravesRR7
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you can create jelousy
whatever you do. do not act as if you are affected by her coldness. Jelousy is a good way to do this. if you show that you are a high-value male and game another girl and show the original girl that you are fun, you may be able to 'give her another chance'
tough situation though. that's the best i've got |
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L.A. Tripp
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If you haven't got anything through the first few minutes that impacted her enough to remember you in the process of refreshing her memory with a simple line or phrase, and she's already being cold to you, chances are you don't have a shot with her. About the only thing you have left TO really catch her attention, if it would even work, IS the jealousy thing.
Or, if you are going to see her again, or have some kind of communication with her, then you should LJBF HER. |
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Ka
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Ima assume that your talking about a girl whom youve at least communicated with for a bit, not someone you just meet...maybe even someone you number closed already.
This is a situation of simply being willing to lose something you never had. There are a bunch of cliche quotes that come to mind, but ill spare you. If if she doesnt come back around move on, about your best bet is to re-establish that your high value, busy, and not playing along with her crap. |
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enderestimate
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| Posted: Mon Jan 21, 2008 7:27 pm Post subject: Burn the cold |
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| If she is cold to you then you haven't done the DHV part how you should have and you need to work on that a little more or maybe it's the bitch shield that's ON because no negs have been given. If your game was good and she is still cold then maybe she's having a bad day and you shouldn't let that ruin your day, would you? When a set doesn't work then learn from it and then leave it for another fresh set in which you can use what you've learned. |
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