Rye
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 Posted: Tue Oct 02, 2007 8:09 pm Post subject: Tutor-Student pickup failure |
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| OK so i got assigned this HB tutor, she is a student, 2 years older than me. i am just sharing my experiences.. so i definitely recieved some IOI's in some way shape or form, but the problem here is the age difference, which unfortunately emphasized by HER being YOUR tutor. this is bad. i tried to become comfortable with her, which i am still in the process of doing, until i received a definite IOD tonight after my first REAL neg towards her. through emails, i would be totally informal. she WAS formal at FIRST and then went INFORMAL which was good. i influenced her to do so. HOWEVER, she messed up a time for on of our appointments, and i said to her "hahaha HB.... you really aren't a blond are you?" then followed with a "it was just a misunderstanding, no big deal". now she took a little longer to respond to this, which was also bad. in addition, when she DID respond, she responded back with a FORMAL email (capitalized letters, correct grammer, correct punctuation, etc) this totally took the carpet out from under me. SO i have learned NOT to neg TOO soon. i have had 3 appointments with her, and i NEGGED TOO SOON. i did NOT have enough comfort first. this case is EXTREMELY more sensitive BC it is with a tutor,not at a bar. this game is definitely more difficult. any tips? im open to em! |
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