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CycklopsGT
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 Posted: Wed Dec 05, 2007 2:11 am Post subject: Turned down...or was I? (im log) |
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ME (8:50:29 AM): Let's talk later
HER (8:50:38 AM): bout what?
ME (8:50:47 AM): Stuff...I'm going to lunch @ 12
HER (8:50:55 AM): what stuff
HER (8:56:58 AM): I'm going to lunch at 11:30. And I dont know yet if my friend is picking me. My girlfriend and I were supposed to go to lunch.
ME (8:58:48 AM): Too bad, it's stuff you'll like
HER (8:59:12 AM): like what? Just tell me
HER (8:59:36 AM): you know what its ok.
HER (8:59:52 AM): Its probaly not important being you dont want to say.
ME (9:00:03 AM): I told you you'll be happy
(when she left later, she smiled at me on the way out)
Been push-pulling this girl for awhile. She's extremely attractive, 9.5 or 10 easily. Haven't gotten a number yet. I said I think she's developed a crush on me in another thread and someone suggested I use the caveman technique and just tell her she's going out with me without asking...this is as close as I could get.
Any questions or comments welcome...I purposefully didn't bother to say what I intended to talk to her about (contrary to her belief, it is important)...happy to hear any other critiques of what I said and any suggestions how you think I should approach this tomorrow...particularly asking her again. |
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Yillan
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She's trying to steal the frame from you, you did a good job keeping it here, but it looks like you have your work cut out for you ;) Don't let her control online convos...if she asks a question, deny the answer and answer it later, when you feel like it.
You should have told her to delay her lunch a half hour and join you. |
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Ka
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| If shes as attractive as you say then you should have used her demanding an answer as a chance to neg her and go C&F. |
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CycklopsGT
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| Yillan wrote: | She's trying to steal the frame from you, you did a good job keeping it here, but it looks like you have your work cut out for you  Don't let her control online convos...if she asks a question, deny the answer and answer it later, when you feel like it. |
Thanks. Any suggestions on how to handle this the next time I see her?
| Quote: | | You should have told her to delay her lunch a half hour and join you. |
That's actually the feeling I got. "I was supposed to" sounds like she's accepting my terms if I want to push them on her. If a girl was telling me to come over her apartment at 9 and I had a far less interesting thing scheduled, I would say "I was suppsed to..." also...
| Ka wrote: | | If shes as attractive as you say then you should have used her demanding an answer as a chance to neg her and go C&F. |
I think she's already attracted to me though. It's just a matter of getting together to talk...far as I can tell. She probably felt disappointed at lunch with her friend (no reason to believe she was lying because she left later and waited for her to call, and if she was BSing she'd have been gone promptly at 11:30)...so either way she wishes she could have gone with me. |
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M_blues09
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| Quote: | | HER (8:56:58 AM): I'm going to lunch at 11:30. And I dont know yet if my friend is picking me. My girlfriend and I were supposed to go to lunch |
right there she told u she wanted to hang out. u have to remember girls are not going to tell you they want to hang out, or most of them, and right there u should have been direct about it and just said ok just come with me at 12 to eat. you didn't need to play games and try to get her to invite herself. u have to be the man and lead her and look for these signs more carefully the next time u talk or im her.
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CycklopsGT
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| M_blues09 wrote: | | Quote: | | HER (8:56:58 AM): I'm going to lunch at 11:30. And I dont know yet if my friend is picking me. My girlfriend and I were supposed to go to lunch |
right there she told u she wanted to hang out. u have to remember girls are not going to tell you they want to hang out, or most of them, and right there u should have been direct about it and just said ok just come with me at 12 to eat. you didn't need to play games and try to get her to invite herself. u have to be the man and lead her and look for these signs more carefully the next time u talk or im her.
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Great point. I'm still learning!
I'll get another chance tomorrow.
Seriously, if I get this girl...I should get to put my initials on a high score screen or something. She's THAT hot. |
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