Turn everything around

L.A. Tripp · Guest

Guys, something you need to think about in the field . . . is turning your normal thought processes around. Most guys think . . . that girl is hot. She's the prize. She has the sex that I need. I have to work to get it from her. BULLSHIT.

For instance, one night, I was in the club. Talking to a 9. We're dropping sexual innuendos with each other. The body language is there. The kino is there between us. The playful vibe is strong.

Suddenly, she makes a comment about us having sex.

I come back with . . . "I never said you were getting sex with me tonight. You haven't earned that."

Her mouth dropped in shock. She stepped back, looked at me, (this was all happening while we stood in the middle of the dance floor in a crowded club, while the band was on stage talking) and said "that's my line." I gave her a cocky smile and shook my head.

Needless to say she moved closer to me and started qualifying herself more at that point. Started sharing her phone with me, talking about her family, who she was texting, blah blah blah.

Guys, turn your mindsets around. It will work wonders.

JSmooth · Posted: Wed Jan 16, 2008 9:17 pm Post subject:

You are right LA that the mindset has to be there. WE ARE THE PRIZE!!! It's a priveledge for them to talk to you, and be around you. You are allowing them to hang out with you. That's the frame of the "10" that LA talks about so much! When you have that, the confidence you exhuberate makes it easier.

Roads · Posted: Wed Jan 16, 2008 10:33 pm Post subject:

OMG lock and bury this thread before anyone sees it!

This is one of the primary elements of my game. If word spreads I'll be fucked...wait, I mean I won't be. Laughing

smudge · Posted: Wed Jan 16, 2008 11:43 pm Post subject:

a good read is swinggcats guide... he talks alot about not prizing her, and prizing urself... buy it for $1 then cancel the subscirption cuz in 7 days he charges $40!

seemoney · Posted: Wed Jan 16, 2008 11:50 pm Post subject:

I agree

Hobbit · Posted: Thu Jan 17, 2008 12:31 am Post subject:

That's the reason I can't stand canned material. I'm a firm believer in inner game. Canned material has its place, but its overused. Once you have the mind state, you convey those traits without having to plan your stories out.

Rye Lee · Posted: Thu Jan 17, 2008 3:57 am Post subject:

Roads · Posted: Thu Jan 17, 2008 9:49 am Post subject:

Someone said in the PUA Chat that canned material does not only refer to lines coined by mPUA's, that it can be memorized material of your own that you throw in to keep conversation flowing.

I use canned material sometimes to do just that, both my own and those from this website.

3 hands · Posted: Thu Jan 17, 2008 2:59 pm Post subject:

Well, the fact is that it is true, any girl should be aware that you are the price. Men like us don't grow on trees. We have to be made by working hard. Thus we are rare, and they should be gratefull if we decide to spend time with them. Twisted Evil

ChrisRocks · Posted: Thu Jan 17, 2008 3:06 pm Post subject:

When i started out i got into this mindset real good, i got out of practice a little and my esteem has dropped a little over the past couple of weeks, Cheers for reminding me Tripp!

Theres so much that goes with this as well liking setting standards and the general alpha game. Love yourself a little!

L.A. Tripp · Guest

Jack · Posted: Thu Jan 17, 2008 4:18 pm Post subject:

Good point LA. And I also would like to add then when you think of a woman as "beautiful," "an HB," or what not and you are still in the early stages of your game where AA is present in abundance then I would reccomend doing a few things.

1) Stop calling women beautiful, or adding any physical description to them. It's just another girl, in fact, probably a dumber one for that matter, and you have no problem talking to UGs who are smart do you?
2) If you aren't going to approach a woman, you don't even deserve to look at her. Plain and simple. If you want to start looking at the girls, then start approaching!

2 rules that helped me out, and still do, when I feel AA- might not work for anyone else but hey what the heck

Clockwork · Posted: Thu Jan 17, 2008 5:47 pm Post subject:

Great advice, this helps me out to no end, I love that feeling that you get when they are qualifying to you and suddenly - like a kick to the head - you realise "shit I am in control" "she wants me?!"

Now my response is "of course she does" whereas before it was more - "no way outta my league etc etc"

Best feeling in my short time since joining the site.

Cheers

J

Rye Lee · Posted: Fri Jan 18, 2008 12:44 am Post subject:

Hobbit · Posted: Fri Jan 18, 2008 12:52 am Post subject:

By the time you have your inner game right, you'll have so many stories that you are randomly reminded of them by things said in conversation. But I do keep one or two of my personal stories "canned" just in case.

Pre-Packaged Canned material is a really good description for the stuff. Props on that.

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