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You're thinking to much.
She says she's going to a pool thing, she's going to a pool thing. Whether she's lying or not isn't for you to worry about or determine. All you have to worry about is whether or not you still want to see her after she flakes, and if your answer to that is "Yes" then bring it up is futile.
You obviously stand a chance. You're just getting a bit confused and the emotions are catching up with you. Chill man.. And if you just got out of a relationship you should be chilling anyway. Theres no rush in trying to become emotionally about someone else too soon.
Play it cool. When you see her take action..
Whats the furthest you've gone with her so far?
2 dates both were good , kissed and some kino . good connection . its been 2 weeks since last date .she has been sick for the last week. she knows i am a go getter .. she knows i am very successful in business , and in first date she moved first time i tried to kiss her , after 10 minutes i followed her to the bathroom pushed her to the wall and kissed her again this time she didn't move !!
i decided to chill about her and be honest next time i see her . i will tell her that if she wants to hang out with me she needs to be more responsive and not play hide and seek .
she keeps telling me that when we are alone she feels good and fun but when other people are around i am a player and she doesn't like .
but this is me and i am not going to change it , she needs to earn me treating her different near other people
i feel like the key here is just honesty , and she must understand that i have no problem to walk away .