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joestylez
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 Posted: Thu Feb 07, 2008 4:05 am Post subject: too young. |
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Hi guys, I'm only 14 years old. So of course - Many girls do not want to have sex ( some do ) but I am more interested in finding a girlfriend.
I'm not sure what to do, instead of ending with an f-close, should I end with a ask-her-out-close?
Thanks.
Another question.
heres some speech:
hb: i don't feel like going to sleep
me: of course not, you're talking to me
hb: you have quite the ego
me:don't worry, its not going anywhere.
bad? good? is 'you have quite the ego' an IOI?
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LoveBomb
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| To me, it is a shit test. You can neg her by saying "It takes a person with one to recognize it." but with a playful manner. Then go into being interested in her with a different thread. Like "What's on your mind?". |
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bassicpoet
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| Posted: Thu Feb 07, 2008 5:57 am Post subject: Re: too young. |
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| joestylez wrote: | | Hi guys, I'm only 14 years old. So of course - Many girls do not want to have sex ( some do ) but I am more interested in finding a girlfriend. |
Holy shit man!! 14 years old!! I never thought I would see a kid be so smart to learn this art so early, more power to ya... as for the gf thing... uh lets not deal with that at a young age.. |
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marvin25
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| First of all, you need a new subject for this post because you are never too young to learn this shit. In fact, if you stick with it and learn as much as you can, you are lightyears ahead of all the other guys at your age. Second, I think a "serious" girlfriend at that age is a bad thing. I had one at your age that I took too seriously, and I believe that screwed up my game with other women for years afterward. You are young man. Enjoy life. I am 23 now and just now figuring that out. I wish I would have found something like this forum at your age. |
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joestylez
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Ok Guys, I'll just work on my game instead of getting 1 girl.
XD
Thanks. |
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sL!CK
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I don't think 14 is too young. Anyone you meet who's older than you and into PU will tell yout hey wish they knew about it at your age. Actually, right now I'm working with a guy your age, giving him a makeover and some advice. Great student.
Look to work on your game, not that much on closing, but mostly on stuff that will give you confidence. It transfers to other areas of life too.
And it doesn't matter really how you define her saying that you got an ego, your comeback was great!
Keep it up and keep us posted. |
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joestylez
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| Posted: Thu Feb 07, 2008 9:41 pm Post subject: |
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Ok guys, what I meant is I'm too young to run around having sex with all the girls I meet, not too young to PU. But maybe that is what PU is about. Sorry for that XD.
The thing about this is, I guess the most depressing part of my life was when I had to buy PUA books (mystery method, How to become an Alpha Male, Double Your Dating, and one book made by a girl (can't remember the name)
To this very day I still sort of embarrassed if someone happens to stumble upon these books. |
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delta4ce
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| Quote: | | To this very day I still sort of embarrassed if someone happens to stumble upon these books. |
hide them? haha...
Really though... at 14, you're probably not going to find a steady girlfriend... it could last a few months if you get lucky.
BUT... since you want one... it's def possible to get one through using these techniques... you'll have to make some modifications-- a fourteen year old girl isn't going to kiss close immediately or anything like that, so try some stuff out, but in general the game is going to be much slower at your age
"quite the ego" wasn't necessarily an IOI... but it could have been depending on body language/ tone of voice (i'm not sure if this was an im conversation or what... so i cant really say)
BTW... if you've read those books, and follow the general guidelines [like i said, they're not the same for someone your age, but very similar] your 1000 times better off than any other 14 year old kid who's not a natural |
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joestylez
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I'm not really into it for long-term, I dunno, it just feels nice. I don't want to have long-term relationships. I get bored. That is why I turn to puaing. Lmao.
Thanks
Another thing is, I have to deal with mostly people I know/Can meet in school.
I can't go randomly on the street, XD. |
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bassicpoet
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| I think working on the inner game is most important in HS because there are the frew wanna be AMOGs sprining up here and there who feel like it is their right to fuck with you. I f you build up a great confidence in your self by the time you get to our age you will be a natural.. |
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PUA to be
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| yeh man as everybody else said.... serious relationships at that age are not worth it i was in one and i ended up getting hurt by a girl i dated for 2 years yes 2 whole years, she decided to just leave me. If i were you if you dont want sex just practice and get over the AA and by the time your older you wont have to worry about approaching girls or anything.... good luck |
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alexandros
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| hahah, how did someone at the age of 14 find out about PUA? |
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onemosphere
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| joestylez wrote: |
To this very day I still sort of embarrassed if someone happens to stumble upon these books. |
hahahaha i totally know what you mean man. im currently 17 and stumbled accross the game through my older brother when i was 16. my mom found neil strauss's 'the game' and flipped out at me saying that it was degrading to women and all that. kind of embarassing, but she doesnt really give a shit anymore... but then again she has no idea i have like a hundred Ebooks on the comp and am a member to this site  |
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ace_of_spades
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First of, I have nothing but respect for you for getting into this at the age of 14. I first stumbled upon the community at the age of 16, but did not take it seriously until I was about 18. I'm 20 now and I still have a long way to go...
When I have a son (and it's gonna be a son, goddamnit! ), I'll introduce him to PUA for his 17th birthday. The best gift he will have ever gotten  |
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onemosphere
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When I have a son (and it's gonna be a son, goddamnit! ), I'll introduce him to PUA for his 17th birthday. The best gift he will have ever gotten |
yeah it would be. christ when i think of how bad my mom brainwashed me into being a kiss ass sweet guy to girls it makes me sick and feel like an idiot for following her advice which was shit anyways. even today she tries to give me girl advice thats total AFC |
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