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nonsense
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 Posted: Tue Nov 06, 2007 11:25 pm Post subject: too nerdy? |
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I was wondering if it is possible to be too nerdy for any of this to work?
Say a guy who is 40 years old virgin, you get the drift |
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Archangel White Rose
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| Posted: Wed Nov 07, 2007 12:29 am Post subject: |
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| nonsense. If it works for me it will work for you. Getting girls is the natural thing for men, otherwise you wouldn't be attracted to them. Make a list of your strengths, habits and hobbies and we'll start working from there. |
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fortunehooks
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| I concur with White Rose, here. I think that with the correct reframing of your mental outlook first, you will in turn be able to set sails on the correct path into some pie. SO I suggest you study up and go out and sarge these available women. |
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Blues
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| Yeah, no such thing -- you're only "too nerdy" if you believe it. The women you're going to be picking up have no clue how many girls you've had in bed. |
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nonsense
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What in the world would a nerd have in common with an HB9??
a nerd will always be a nerd if he was truly a nerd. |
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Archangel White Rose
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| Posted: Wed Nov 07, 2007 6:35 am Post subject: |
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| nonsense wrote: | What in the world would a nerd have in common with an HB9??
a nerd will always be a nerd if he was truly a nerd. |
I don't know. What does a nerd have in common with women in general? |
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The Doctor
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| Posted: Wed Nov 07, 2007 8:54 am Post subject: |
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| nonsense wrote: | What in the world would a nerd have in common with an HB9??
a nerd will always be a nerd if he was truly a nerd. |
Be carefull, that makes it sound like your linking is working like this in your belief system.
HB's don't like Nerds.
Being a nerd is something that makes me who I am.
Now if you keep both of those beliefs as facts... then sadly you won't be able to get women... So what you have to do is change your belief on one of those "facts".
Choose which one you want to change? Neither is really true, so it doesn't much matter which one. |
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FreeLife
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| Quote: | | a nerd will always be a nerd if he was truly a nerd. |
That's a lame excuse for not changing to the better. I don't mean to come of as too harsh but that's what it is. Everybody can change. In my view a nerd is someone of limited maturity and life experience. Well guess what: In order to stop being a nerd the nerd must get more life experience. He's gotta step out of the fake world of the computer games he is playing and start living. The computer games are not only stealing the nerds time they are also stealing emotional energy which could be used for better purposes.
Spending a life playing computer is a complete waste.
As the nerd realize this he will seek out real life experiences. For example he could go out sarging and get experiences in real life by meeting women. But this is only one way to gain life experience. He could also go on a journey to a foreign country with a friend. He could start playing an instrument and play a concert. There a numerous ways to get life experience. Actually whenever you do something new it will add to your life experience.
As the nerd gets more experienced he will become more mature. And in this way he will no longer be a nerd when he has gotten some life experience and matured to some point. And since everybody can get life experience everybody can change. Therefor there are no such thing as a "true nerd".
Good luck in your efforts:) |
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