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 Posted: Thu Oct 18, 2007 10:25 pm Post subject: TONIGHT!! I need some advice.... |
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I recently got a call from this girl I met in class during the summer semester at my college. I had seen her in class, but I never really talked to her until one day at the computer lab I opened her up. I dont remember exactly what I told her but within a few minutes into the conversation she was talking away. We walked out of the building together and even as we parted our ways she kept talking to me ( I took as an IOI).
We contacted each other on myspace and She sent me her # (so I # closed..I guess). It was rather simple. I made unrealistic plans with her...ex: I told her I was going to NY, and WE were going to have a good time blahblah
Then I told her we should hang out some time and she said sure, so I asked her for her number...anyway...I never called her.
Two weeks ago..she called me. we talked and talked and talked, and are still talking....last week on thursday she sent me a text. She was very excited and she felt happy. She told me she wanted to go out with me. I told her I had plans.....I didnt. The following monday was my bday, and she said she wanted to hang out with me on my bday. I honestly couldnt, so I told her we could go out on thursday.
Today is thursday, and Im not sure if I have to attract her again or build more comfort.
I ve already built a lot of comfort on the phone, so do I have to attract and build comfort or just keep building comfort.
*Im definitely plan on kiss closing tonight.
So can I get some insight? |
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Disclaimer : I'm a total newbie.
But IMO there is no correct answer. When you see her look for IOI's, see if attraction is there, and try a compliance test. From there you can figure out where to go.  |
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| Posted: Thu Oct 18, 2007 11:34 pm Post subject: Re: TONIGHT!! I need some advice.... |
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| SmoothOne wrote: | I recently got a call from this girl I met in class during the summer semester at my college. I had seen her in class, but I never really talked to her until one day at the computer lab I opened her up. I dont remember exactly what I told her but within a few minutes into the conversation she was talking away. We walked out of the building together and even as we parted our ways she kept talking to me ( I took as an IOI).
We contacted each other on myspace and She sent me her # (so I # closed..I guess). It was rather simple. I made unrealistic plans with her...ex: I told her I was going to NY, and WE were going to have a good time blahblah
Then I told her we should hang out some time and she said sure, so I asked her for her number...anyway...I never called her.
Two weeks ago..she called me. we talked and talked and talked, and are still talking....last week on thursday she sent me a text. She was very excited and she felt happy. She told me she wanted to go out with me. I told her I had plans.....I didnt. The following monday was my bday, and she said she wanted to hang out with me on my bday. I honestly couldnt, so I told her we could go out on thursday.
Today is thursday, and Im not sure if I have to attract her again or build more comfort.
I ve already built a lot of comfort on the phone, so do I have to attract and build comfort or just keep building comfort.
*Im definitely plan on kiss closing tonight.
So can I get some insight? |
Take her out for pizza, etc... (something inexpensive), then kiss close as you're dropping her off at home. Tell her you'll call her in a few days.
Then call her in a few days.
Give her time to think about it.
She'll be begging in no time. |
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