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Nick Stone
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 Posted: Thu Jul 03, 2008 11:32 pm Post subject: Text Game Trouble |
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OK so I have been texting this girl that I work with. When I first got her number she was really into me and always asked when we were gunna chill, I was busy then and had to postpone any type of chill time with her. So I have been getting the feeling that she may have lost interest, the way she acts in person is way different then the way she texts, she constantley gives IOIs in person, so I know there is still attraction.
I also have been wondering if I may be showing some neediness by texting her first. I have been asking when we gunna get together maybe a few times to many. We text for long chats and its gets really deep, maybe I need to freeze her out (not the LMR freeze out)? She called me conceited the other day and I thought "dang i messed up my C&F". I text alot so Im looking for any links on text game (cause searching this forum is really weird).
And Im asking for any advice in this situation. |
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Hobbit
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| Posted: Fri Jul 04, 2008 2:55 pm Post subject: |
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| Build sexual tension with texting. |
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DannyDurden
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| Posted: Sat Jul 05, 2008 9:13 pm Post subject: |
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never let texting be the primary means of communication
i repeat
never let texting be the primary means of communication
it's not as personal. there's no commitment. you will always be half the man compared to the other guys she's actually SPEAKING to be it phone or in person simply because there is a GLASS CEILING with texting interaction.
texting is a tool. if you're having deep conversations over texting, you're being modulated by the invisible ceiling. you should be having these stimulating conversations IN PERSON or at LEAST on the phone.
you can't make a move with texting. texting is a gateway for personal interaction.
keep this in mind. if you linger on one level too long, she'll withdraw. if a dog expects a bone and doesn't get it, there's a point where the dog will miss it more and more, and finally accept the terms that he wont get the bone and just move on.
people that text too much are like the owner that doesn't throw the bone.
she'll move on.
if you habitually and primarily text, you need to make sure it's not because you're insecure and postponing personal interaction.
HEAVILY consider that last sentence.
throw the bitch a bone  |
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Nick Stone
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| Posted: Sun Jul 06, 2008 3:18 pm Post subject: |
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| Sounds like good advice to me thanks. |
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