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soohigh
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 Posted: Tue Oct 30, 2007 7:07 pm Post subject: testing |
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alright, im sick of these shit tests i get, this specific person KEEPS shit testing me, example, while talking shell say things like "shut up" (over the internet too so its hard for me to tell if shes serious or not) and what not, and i know shes just testing cuz she still lieks me (initiating kino with me and talking to me all the time) but its fuckin annoying i want to have a normal conversation and not be in this flirty pretend-battle all the time, how can i pass her test so good she stops or at least slows down? (like when she says "shut up" or something on msn, and if that example is too vague whats the right attitude i should have? should i act not offended? should i act annoyed, should i be disinterested should i change the subject?
oh yeah, and also i forgot to add in, she usually does this in response to a neg or something similar maybe i should slow the negging down? |
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hollywoodinpa
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| Posted: Thu Nov 01, 2007 12:31 am Post subject: hey |
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Hey man I bet she just wants a challenge I'd just act like I didnt even hear her lil shit test and if she keeps it up just be cocky funny. She likes being sassy and nothing wrong with that personaly thats my type of girl I think it's fun. But for you I doubt she''ll change because thats just hows she is she likes to see ppls reactions how do I know this because I'm the same way but a guy version.
There might be one way to get her to stop but you could lose her as well and that is everytime she acts up just freeze her out for awhile and she'll either change or leave. but for you this might be your best bet since you don't like how shes acting so now you have to change her personality to fit you. Reward her good behavior and punish her bad simply right? |
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Lashram01
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| Posted: Thu Nov 01, 2007 1:04 am Post subject: |
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pass her shiit test and shiit test her right back, hollywood is right. . . she enjoys this kind of game. . . she probly thinks of it as banter.
you can try freez outs, but remember after puniching her remember to give her an easy compliance test and when she passes, reward her. |
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snubby (aka Zen)
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| Posted: Thu Nov 01, 2007 1:28 pm Post subject: Re: hey |
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| hollywoodinpa wrote: | | everytime she acts up just freeze her out for awhile and she'll either change or leave. |
Freeze out is the first thing I thought of too. Something like this:
You: random neg
Her: Shut up.
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Her: Hey, where are you
You: I though you said to shut up
Her: I was just kidding
You: well then smile when you say that. 
Her: Ok
etc.
Good luck. |
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