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Mr Fahrenheit
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 Posted: Thu Oct 04, 2007 3:58 pm Post subject: Strange to Smooth |
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| Ok, i asked this in FR but nobody answered. What is the way to go from being a strange guy in a shopping centre to somebody that the girls dont want to walk away from them? My day approach is getting tight but i need to jump this hurdle. What can i incorporate into this to become somebody worth knowing on their part..? |
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Roofas
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| Posted: Thu Oct 04, 2007 4:02 pm Post subject: |
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| Who are you trying to hit on? girls that work there? girls that are just walking around? I'd think there are plenty of ways and it's a pretty broad question. it sounds like your just asking..."How do i pick up girls at the shopping center" have you read anything, mystery method, the game, anything along those lines? |
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Paetar
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| Posted: Thu Oct 04, 2007 5:25 pm Post subject: |
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BE WARM.
Be FRIENDLY.
Be CONGRUENT.
But, don't overdo it - don't be needy. Act like it's just natural for you to talk to strangers. And get cocky&funny as soon as you consider her potential mate.
When she opens up, LISTEN - as soon as convo gets boring, light it up and eject. Ask for #. AND date.
Carpe Diem. |
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Mr Fahrenheit
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| Posted: Fri Oct 05, 2007 12:07 am Post subject: |
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I'm hearing a ton of useless rubbish i already know. Tell me somthing in depth and helpful or dont reply. 'Be friendly' What? So you think i just go up smack her in the face and say talk to me..?
IRT #2 Yes i've read them all dont patronise me, this is in newbie questions because i want a quick solution.
This phenominon of girls acting standofish and defensive only happens one time in perhaps 5 approaches, all i want to know is what to do specifically to recitify it |
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Skyy
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| Posted: Sun Oct 07, 2007 8:51 pm Post subject: Women with attitude. |
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Hey man, I'm going to assume you got better game than I do, so I'm not going to do much but offer an example of something "I think" i've found on rectifying a women whose giving off an attitude. Last night I was in the bar and the bartender was being kind of a bitch. She was very curt with everyone and was just giving off a general aura of unnhappiness. Now, I can understand this. She's a pretty attractive bartender that probably gets hit on all the time. As such, she builds up a wall of protection. What she seems to want is someone to see through those walls for what they really are and that she is a good and emotional person inside. Sometimes you have to be a man and call her out on it. I said, "you know, you have an attitude problem," she all of a sudden feels insecure, I've seen through her wall... (This is only in cases of major wall) You can use that to segway (though I didn't for this specific event, I had to go) into a David De. thing, and tell her something like ,"I can understand the fact that you feel you have to put up a wall around you. But can we, just for this instant, pretend that that wall doesn't exist and we are just two human beings reaching out to eachother for a little conversation across a lonely world?"
But then again...haven't really tested it this far. Just a Newbie. If you get shot down using this, oh well...NEXT! |
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