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NateTheMack
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 Posted: Sun Nov 04, 2007 4:04 am Post subject: Still learning and need some advice. |
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Ok so after reading The Game, I decided to start working on my own game, so I ended up talking to a HB 7.5, but I'm not sure if what I'm doing is working or not so I was going to see what some of the more experienced ones have to say.
It all starts out about 5 months ago when i first met her, but didn't really she came with some others to see a movie, I get home and she had added me on myspace and I haven't talked to her until about 4 days ago. (Sadly neither of us even remember what the movie was,must have sucked, but she remembers alot of details about me such as what I drive and other stuff like that, good sign?)
So 4 days ago I contacted her on myspace and then she gave me her AIM
talked for abit and then she got off, but gave me her number and told me to txt her, well I gave her mine witch at first I thought may have been a mistake, but she asked me to txt her, witch I never did.
The next day she ended up txting me at 9am and well talked back and forth for awhile, then stopd till later that night when she was back on AIM.
Same thing the next day she txted first and we ended up talking till she had to go to work.
Today I sent the first txt at around no reply, but she got on AIM abit ago and we talked. Her internet went out like it has before, so i sent her a txt, and again no reply.
I do neg her in the txts but not hardcore just enough to get her to do it back playfully in the same way.
Ok so my main question is, how can I make this go better, I know I HAVE to find a way to go somewhere to get any farther, but whats a good way to do it?
Any and all help is welcome, and sorry for it being so long. |
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96Firebird
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| Posted: Sun Nov 04, 2007 6:21 am Post subject: |
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| Call her. |
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JSmooth
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| Posted: Sun Nov 04, 2007 5:00 pm Post subject: Thought |
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Based on what you said it sounds like there are some IOI's coming your way from her. Call her and say something like, "I'm out with my friends at the mall, playing pool, whatever but I thought you might like to tag along." This way if she says no you're hanging with your friends DHVing anyways. If it doesn't work the first time keep talking to her on the phone and later on try again.
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Archangel White Rose
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| Posted: Sun Nov 04, 2007 11:10 pm Post subject: |
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| Take it farther? meet her in person! Nothing like talking to another person face to face. |
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L.A. Tripp
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| Posted: Mon Nov 05, 2007 6:03 am Post subject: |
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| Yes, the fact that she remembered details about you is very good. Yes, you need to meet her in person and KINO. That's a must at this point. As was already suggested, call her up and INVITE her to tag along somewhere that you are ALREADY going. DON'T ask her out. Don't do something specifically to meet her. Both of those are DLV's. And, if you don't kino soon, she may fall further away. It's good that she initiated the texting at first. Now, you need to be face to face and start the kino escalation. |
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