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Yes i'm opening direct.
But doesn't opening situational become indirect games and sometimes even canned? What am I missing here?
"What's up with all the cracks in this sidewalk?"
Looks brutal right, except that it or almost anything else is a very good situational opener. Because ANYTHING you say situationally is perfectly fine so long as, again, you are coming with the demeanor mentioned above. Skip that demeanor and she WILL NOT pick up on your intent and WHO you are as a man.
When done this way, it's way more direct than direct and way more intriguing and fun for most girls.
And the situational thing can also be about yourself. What a relief for a woman who is used to being fawned on by every dude - to actually have a guy talking about himself from the outset - says a lot about who you are i.e. you are used to girls being a sounding board for you and you are not fawning over her beauty, which as we all know, is common.
Just go have a flirty chat and see where things lead.
Don't be nervous - is a man in demand ever nervous or is he always having relaxed playful energy for the most part.
It's only canned or indirect games ("Who cheats more?" etc.) if the guy lacks creativity in what he says.