Several people have suggested just giving your number to her. And she's working, she doesn't have to much time for you to run game on her. So that could work out fine. But every interaction is an oppurtunity.
She likes you, so giving her your number probably wouldn't kill you, but in most cases, you never want to give them your number. How do you know she'll call? She might lose it, or given that you haven't had time to make her extremely interested, she might just not feel like it. Anyway, what the hell has she done to earn your number? You always want them to give you their number. But you don't want to ask either, you don't want to be needy. But how do you get them to give you their number without asking? I'm glad you asked.
So you go in and fluff a little.... (don't stay too long, leave her wanting more).
You: I'm going to this party this weekend. It's going to be awesome. I could probably get you in if you can ever get out of work. (display higher value by suggesting that it's a selective party that you're going to, while simultaneously lowering her value by suggesting its a party that she would not otherwise be able to get into without your help)
Her: Yeah, that'd be awesome. I don't work this weekend
You: I better get out of here before your boss throws a fit. Let me see your phone right quick. (she gives you her phone and you put your number into it, and THEN you call your phone. So not only do you have her number, but she has your number and you didn't have to lower your value by asking for it)
You: There you go... I'll try to call you before the party. But if you get bored, you have my number. (by saying you'll try to call her instead of saying "Yeah! I'll definitely call you!!" you are DHV by implicitly suggesting there's a possibility you won't call, which increases the chances of her calling you. Chances are, she won't, because you haven't worked your magic yet... you'll do that at the party. But still, if she does, its a big IOI)
HB: Awesome... I can't wait.
Now... she digs you, so she'll probably say she can go. But if she's genuinely busy or has to work, you'll need to recover. So in case she makes up an excuse, you'll throw this neg at her.
You: Yeah... you look kinda like that all-work, no-play kinda girl. Does that make you dull, too?
This one's a ball-buster... its a neg, but asking if she's dull lowers her value as well.
Happy sarging....
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