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I think it's fair to do that if you're a busy guy.
If these interactions are quick, then perhaps a little effort could turn a neutral girl into a date.
Post up your transcripts though. I see way too often people trying to be 'too alpha' with asking girls out. "Let's meet at 3am tonight, dress sexy for me'
Basically, that's my problem in a nutshell. Not that quite that extreme, but the following would be a typical opening text. For background, this girl was working at a police precinct part-time. We traded contact information, and she said to text her Friday to see if she was working on Saturday.
So around 9:30PM (before I went to bed), I send her a text:
"Hey it's (cute nickname for myself). Are you booking bad guys tomorrow, or are you free to go on an adventure?"
"I made other plans for Saturday sorry".
"I know we're both busy, but how about after class during the week?"
"My classes end late"
Depending on the situation, I might get their number in 30 seconds (e.g. if we're both running between classes). But I try to make it clear that I'm getting their number with the goal of meeting up (not sure why else you would want a girl's number lol). So when I send that text, it's straight to the point.
Sometimes I try to finalize the plans on the spot when I meet them (which has worked when the girl was into me, but not as often as I'd like")