Johnny Utah wrote:
WT Foxtrot wrote:
I thought the whole point of PU arts was that you can approach women in any situation. For instance if there is a group of women you approach and say your great opener with the caveat that your waiting for your food to arrive and you only have a little bit of time. People will suffer / enjoy social interaction for a short time. It's the guy that comes up stands in front of them and starts talking like he is never going to leave that is awkward.
Yes, I know that pua is for approaching women no matter the situation, but I have always just preferred approaching women alone. Not only is it a hell of a lot easier, it is more fun and intimate without the possible cockblocking from a group of friends "protecting their friend from the big bad player".
Regardless, next time I notice a group of women sending me IOI's, I will approach and either hit on the one that was sending the most IOI's or the hottest one in the bunch or both.
I think it will be more beneficial for you to approach groups of girls (even mixed sets with guys in them too) because it will only improve your pickup and social skills in the long run. If you can deal with the social pressure of attempting to isolate one of the girls from the group, then of course when you go back to the girl who's all alone (the easier set), you'll kill it! And if you can get the group of friends "on your team", sometimes if the friends think that you are really cool..they will assist you in the pickup (play matchmaker), to help make it easier for you to get the girl that you are trying to isolate from the group. Of course to pull that off, in a sense..you will have to game (ie..befriend) the entire group, not just the girl. But doing group dynamic pickup will only further sharpen your skills. Also..if you don't game groups and only game girls who are alone, you're only doing yourself a disservice. I don't know if you've noticed, but most hot girls are rarely out alone. And there is alot of potential pussy that you will be missing out on, if you don't do group game.
And in regards to it seeming like girls who are in a group, seem to get alot louder as you pass by or sit next to them..it's because of the phenomenon that is always taking effect with women at any given time, that is called the womens' "Buying Temperature". If you don't know what that means, look up the definition here http://www.pualingo.com/buying-temperature-bt/
If you've ever approached a girl that seemed like she didn't want to be approached (maybe she was even wearing the dreaded "resting bitch face"
). You approached her, and she completely and utterly blew you out. But that same girl will get approached by another guy after you, and she will be all happy and excited all of a sudden..and you watching this is like WTF!!!
It's because of the phenomenon in women known as their "buying temperature".
The more a women gets approached (even if it's unwanted) her buying temperature still goes up anyway. Even if the approach is a passive approach like; Walking pass a group of girls..and their vocals seem to get alot louder all of a sudden..some of the girls or all of the girls in the group may have high "buying temperatures". Being a pua, you can manipulate (i hate to use that word manipulate, but it is appropriate for what i'm trying to explain here) a women's "buying temperature" to get her to for an example; get her to sleep with you on the same day or the same night you first meet her. To an AFC (Average Frustrated Chump) that doesn't understand how a woman's "buying temperature" operates..fucking a random girl that you met on the street just an hour ago, would seem impossible to him. But an experienced pua who understands how a women's "buying temperature" works, can manipulate it to get her to agree to fuck him after just meeting her randomly on the street an hour ago. Another term for this is called "emotional and sexual spiking".
(Btw..when i say "a random girl that you meet on the street", i'm not talking about a prostitute. I'm talking about any girl that is not a prostitute. I'm talking about normal girls with normal jobs, independence, and self-respect. I know that there are a few members on this forum that are total dummies..they know who they are..and will misinterpret "a random girl that you meet on the street" as me describing a prostitute. Paying prostitutes for sex is not game okay. It's called just paying a prostitute for sex..because you can't get laid, because you have no game, and because you are desperate for sex. That is not what i'm talking about here..alright! Alright. Had to get that out of the way)
So the next time you see a group of girls seeming to get louder after you just passed by them..approach them anyway, because they may have high buying temperatures. And that is good news for you if you are attracted to any of them.