Sticking point help

Charm333 · Posted: Thu Nov 01, 2007 5:47 am Post subject: Sticking point help

Tonight I was at a halloween party (early from 7-10ish) And I'm gonna go to another one pretty soon like in an hour or so but at the other party I was on fire... until I don't know what happened but one of my target just kinda lost interest. Then this other guy (my friend) showed up she talked to him in the corner for a reallly long time and just hung around him. I don't know what happened but it was at this point she asked me to get her a drink so I said "why don't you get me one?" and then the other guy just says I'll get you one! and goes outside to get her a drink then bam they talk for a long time and I could tell she was interested in him.... I don't get it he was so AFC at the party...
help?

snubby (aka Zen) · Posted: Thu Nov 01, 2007 1:34 pm Post subject:

Under the circumstances, instead of refusing to get a drink, I would have established a quid pro quo.

Her: Hey, can you get me a drink?
You: Sure, but what are you going to do for me when I get back? I could sure use a backrub
Her: option 1 - ew, no, I will never touch you, I am repulsed by you.
or option 2 - Hmmm, we'll have to see.
or option 3 - ok, sounds fair to me.

If 1, don't get the drink. If 3, do get the drink. If 2, your call.

Also, just thinking outside the box here, but you could have said, "sure, I'll get you a drink" then wander off and talk to another girl within eyeshot of the first girl. Play the same game on her she's playing on you. If she comes over asking about her drink while you're talking to girl 2, that's good stuff.
CAT FIGHT! Laughing

There are no hard and fast rules, stay flexible and try not to focus on just one girl or she will be able to play games like this on you. In a party situation, keep a few open loops with a few girls so you can bounce around.

Good luck.

Charm333 · Posted: Thu Nov 01, 2007 6:33 pm Post subject:

Thanks! Now that I think about it there were definately other options

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