Keeping the convo going...how?



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PostPosted: Sat Apr 16, 2016 9:41 pm 
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Hey guys,

just thought I quickly throw out some questions, which I ran into literally ~3ish hours ago.
Anyways hoping that someone whos more of an extrovert could help out a little.

So just a little background:
Mentioned in some other posts before, that ever since I moved to a different country, where they speak a different language, I developed a rather horrible approach anxiety. I start overthinking stuff, and usually can open, but run out of stuff to say very quickly.
So same thing tonight. Met up with some friends and some girls I haven't met before, but who speak my mother tongue, and some local girls (probably HB7,7,9/dont speak my language).
Anyways, to make things short, opening with the girls who speak my language wasnt a problem, and generally we had some good conversations, and one of the girls wants to meet for a coffee...so no total fuckup there.

But with the locals I found very difficult again, even though I tried making a effort. So usually it was just a few relatively short exchanges...if any at all actually, but didnt manage to develop the convo into anything further....

Anyways, so my question is how do extroverts come up with conversation topics, and keep it flowing?
Or is there maybe a good PUA book people can recommend, which covers this topic in some depth.

Regards.


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PostPosted: Tue May 31, 2016 6:26 am 
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Wish I had better advice because I have the same question. Stay calm so it is easier to focus on what they say and listen critically. That one word listen is all that comes to mind and is essential. Keep your mind as clear as you can.


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PostPosted: Tue Nov 22, 2016 11:13 am 
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