Well I was out clubbing with a mate of mine last Saturday and I was partying with my mates.
So I saw this girl in the distance and there was this tall guy chatting her up. He seemed to be there for some time but left afterwards. She was with 3 other male friends.
I am new to this whole PUA thing and made a mistake. I approached this girl 3 times that night. Here's what happened:
1) After that other guy left this girl and her 3 male friends were in another area of the club dancing. My lady friend walked up to the girl that I was interested in and said that a friend of hers (myself) likes her. When I approached she smiled and said "I am with someone." So I left.
2) After say another 30-45 minutes later I approached this same girl who still had her 3 other male friends with her. I smiled at the other guys and then her making eye contact. I approached her closely and tried to start talking with her.
This whole period where I was talking with her she was either looking at me and smiling or looking at a wall and smiling. She never stopped smiling.
I put my arm around her shoulder, moved my head close to hers and started talking. I asked her what her name was, introduced myself, told her it was good seeing her. She still mentioned she was with someone...so I asked her "what's his name? where is he? is he here?" She didn't have any answer for this and kept on smiling. I asked her if she was coming back to the same club next weekend..she said no...I asked her where she was going and she responded 'I don't know."
So I left telling her it was nice meeting her.
3) Me and my friend were about to leave...but I didn't want to leave without closing of what I started. I got a pen and paper and wrote down:
"LOL. There is no other guy is there?
Let's have a drink together sometime. Here's my number..."
So I walked up to her group (in a circle) and this time blocked off her 3 male friends. How? Simple..I shook hands with the first male friend and shook hands with the rest. After shaking hands with the guys it was just me and her one on one. My back was facing all the other guys. So again my arm was around her back...my head was close to hers...she kept on smiling...did not hesitate...she did not mention she was with someone this time around and I had a quick chat with her. I passed her the message which she started reading and told her I'll see her next time and I left.
WELL! Lol...no phone call from her yet.
Anyways what's your opinion guys on how I went and what I could have done better?
Now that I think about it I could have asked her if she had a favourite drink and held her hands while escorting her to the bar to buy her a drink. Missed opportunity
I should also mention the whole period I was with her she was smiling and when my arm was around her shoulder I did not feel any disinterest. I should also mention she didn't have much to say except her smile.