This is an interesting one...
I have recently had a few set backs, and I use to post about a lot of negative aspects of my life in this forum and I am proud to say that I am definitely making progress.
One thing about when it comes to me and girls is, I am super picky about the ones I want to be with, and I like a challenge and thats what attracts me to the girl.
Anyways, When I was in high school there was this girl 2 years younger than me, and she is beautiful and I have always thought it. She is very friendly and still a virgin, and very sweet and kind but funny and laid back.
In school when I was a senior, I spoke to her very rarely but when I did it was always joking around.
2 years later, she is in her senior year, me my second of university, and she lives where my home is where I go and visit each holiday. I added her on bbm, and we have been talking non stop for the past week, but its not jujst like any converstaion. We have so much in common, flirting non stop, joking around, sharing stories, saying things which we havent said to others. She is something a bit special and I have always thought it and ironically enough I am talking to her everyday.
Cutting to the chase, I see the girls around me and I know what I am capable of, and I dont like what is around me. But I do like this girl a lot, and I definitely would date this girl. She is in Europe, me North America, I know i know, but I go back to Europe every holiday and in the future we might be near each other.
THE GOAL: I want to remain good contact with her, and want her for the next 3 months to constantly want to be talking to me, and interested, like she is NOW, but I know this could easily die out, do you have any advice to keep her on the interested end, how to make her think more about me as she said today she has been on and off.
Cheers,
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