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PatrickLH New to PUA Forum
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Posted: Sat Oct 20, 2007 4:50 pm Post subject: Smoking? |
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| What's up guys, I was just wondering about smoking and I'd like a few more opinions. Do you think it's a turn-on to women or turn-off? |
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HellRaiser New to PUA Forum
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Posted: Sat Oct 20, 2007 5:10 pm Post subject: |
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It might be a turn off (blowing smoke in the face, yellow fingers, yellow teeth, bad taste) - avoid those. Use mild tobacco, i do.
Not sure about your country, but here we are forced to go outside to smoke - I guess you can use that to bring your lady with you somehow. "wanna come smoke outside??" something ...
Also we got funny warnings on the smoke pack - get some from abroad that look crazy - then you have something to talk about "look what they got in germany, ..." then say something funny or do some funny with it...
But hey - im no expert... |
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PatrickLH New to PUA Forum
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Posted: Sat Oct 20, 2007 7:10 pm Post subject: |
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I generally use menthols.
I live in america, by the way. |
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The Doctor Moderator Dedicated Member
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Posted: Sat Oct 20, 2007 7:15 pm Post subject: Re: Smoking? |
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| PatrickLH wrote: | | What's up guys, I was just wondering about smoking and I'd like a few more opinions. Do you think it's a turn-on to women or turn-off? |
I think it's diffrent with each lady... if she doesn't smoke be carefull because if she's cool with it ok... but if she's not sometimes that right there can DLV you right out of it. ie "I hate cigarette smoke!" |
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Numen PUA Forum Zealot
Joined: 08 Sep 2007 Posts: 310
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Posted: Sun Oct 21, 2007 12:45 am Post subject: |
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generally it's a turn on to women who smoke because it's something you two have in common.. many women these days think it's disgusting but it all depends where you're from and who the woman is...
i don't smoke unless the occasional clove when i'm drunk so i use it to DHV and give them a hard time... half of the girls i've dated or had as FBs have smoked, and every one of them stopped smoking in order to have me.
it's all how you use it man |
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Easton PUA Forum Enthusiast
Joined: 14 Oct 2007 Posts: 38
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Posted: Tue Oct 23, 2007 3:09 am Post subject: |
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If she doesn't like it, this is what i do.
She usually mentions something about not liking it. Its usually loud in the clubs and bars so i lean in real close to her putting my face by her mouth. When she says this again, i pull my face away and immediatly give her a piece of gum implying to her that her breath stinks and forget about the cigarrette thing. I finish my cigarrette and usually don't light another one. This works as a good neg. |
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The Wild One PUA Forum Leader
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Posted: Tue Oct 23, 2007 3:28 am Post subject: |
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| I try my best to smell great, and everything. I have to admit I do smoke if I have a few drinks. Which I doesn't affect my game to bad at all. I mean most girls don't care really they just like to do what women do best. Complain! |
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Mazal New to PUA Forum
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Posted: Wed Nov 14, 2007 7:08 am Post subject: |
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| EASTON that was awesome!!! I am gonna use it here for two more months.... State law wont let us smoke anywhere starting New Years here in Illinois - Mabye we will have to come up your way, just a 2 hour drive from chi town right? |
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Muse PUA Forum Zealot
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Posted: Wed Nov 14, 2007 7:20 am Post subject: |
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I started smoking over summer, not intense...between 1 and 6 a day. I took a break for awhile and now im doing the same thing.
Actually so far it's only been a turn off for one girl, and I Full Closed her that night. Haha. A few other girls I've gamed recently only found it to be a turn on because they smoke as well. I love going out to have a smoke with them because it's perfect for isolation, and a GREAT way to build comfort if you work the conversation right...during a smoke I've noticed people(not just girls) tend to open up a lot more in conversation.
You could even go in for the K-close after...this has happened to me before:
Her: Oh, do you think my breath will smell like smoke now?
Me: Hmm, let's find out...
Me: *Plants one on her*
Her: *giggling*
*Make out session ensues*
Other than that, I get asked for a lighter all the time, so it's a good chance to use some cocky funny...situational, whatever pops into my head. And an easy way to open because SHE opens YOU.
If you're gonna have a cancer stick every now and again, use 'em to your advantage!
~Muse |
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JSmooth PUA Forum Leader
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Posted: Wed Nov 14, 2007 3:24 pm Post subject: Hey |
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I usually smoke about half a pack a day, and more when I drink. When I'm in the field I do not drink or have very few. Likewise, I don't smoke either. Not drinking makes it easier not to smoke. I'll typically drink a Red Bull or something. Anyways, there are more women out there that don't smoke and thing it's disguisting and those that like it.
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insurgentdeerz New to PUA Forum
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Posted: Thu Nov 15, 2007 12:09 am Post subject: Smokin'.... |
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It can be both good & bad
If you find a woman who thinks puffin' a ciggy is sexy, go for it... there is, however, a downfall to this... say she has asthma, allergies, or her family doesn't like her to smell like smoke, or her friends for that matter.
If you're going to do it, do it when you're away from her, since smoking implies you're stressed out at the time, or want to escape the world...+
If the girl really likes you, she'll care about your health, as she does for her own, does she really want to be in a relationship with a guy who fills his lungs with smoke & literally takes years off his life on a daily basis? I think not.
It's about as sexy as chewing tobacco, would you want your woman doing that?
I don't think so...
Your choice |
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gyarados Member of PUA Forum
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Posted: Thu Nov 15, 2007 12:36 am Post subject: |
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QUIT
its a turn off to girls who dont smoke. So if you find a non-smoker then don't smoke.
and when you are with a girl that smokes, I would smoke but don't take it in as it maes them feel more comfortable |
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