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Stonecutter1
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 Posted: Fri May 26, 2006 9:10 pm Post subject: Situational Openers |
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Ideas for creating new openers. Look at the situation and environment...
I saw someone do this once...
I wonder if...
I don't know how soon...
I wonder could you...
I would like to suggest that...
I want you to bear in mind...
I want you to become aware...
I can remember...
I'd like you to pretend that...
I'm wondering...
I'm curious to know...
If you could...
In my experience...
Is it that you are...
Is it possible...
Is it that you have...
Is it that there is...
It is useful that...
It's just like...
It's impossible...
It's good to know that...
It's useful that...
It's good that...
It's either (A) or (B); which is it...
It's not important that...
It's as if...
People can loosen up easily...
Perhaps you are...
Perhaps you can...
Perhaps you could...
Perhaps you're wondering...
This can be learned easily...
What do you think would happen if...
What would happen if...
What's it like to...
When you notice... ...then...
Will you...
Would you...
You come to...
You are learning to anticipate...
You can become aware that...
You know about these things...
You will feel...
After you come to....
After you've...
And the more you (X)...the more you (Y)
And as you...
Are you curious about...
Are you aware that...
Are you still interested in...
As you hear these words they...
As you... ...then...
As you consider this...
Be aware of what you can sense...
Before you think...
Can you imagine...
Can I ask you to...
Can you visualise...
Can you...
Can you remember...
Could you...
Do you think that...
Do you remember when...
Do you...
Do you ever...
Don't think of...
Has it ever occurred to you that...
Have you noticed that...
Have you ever wondered...
Have you...
Have you ever...
How would you feel if...
How do you know that...
How do you feel when...
I don't want you to be...
I want you to learn...
I know you are curious...
I saw someone do this in minutes once...
I wonder if...
I don't know how soon...
I wonder could you...
I would like to suggest that...
I want you to bear in mind...
I want you to become aware...
I can remember...
I'd like you to pretend that...
I'm wondering...
I'm curious to know...
If you could...
In my experience...
Is it that you are... |
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Xlex
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| Posted: Sun May 28, 2006 11:59 pm Post subject: |
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| hmm, personally I'm not too keen on situational openers - makes you seem a bit chump-like if you go "oooh, nice place isn't it? I remember a bar like this in Spain..." what reason have you for saying that to them? You've gotta have a basic reason to speak to them other than the fact that they're standing near you, e.g. to get a female opinion or whatever |
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DQ
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| Posted: Mon May 29, 2006 5:12 am Post subject: |
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| I agree...Once they are on to you the "bitch shield" goes up and you're just another smoe. You have to have a ligitimate reason to talk to them. |
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DQ
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| Posted: Mon May 29, 2006 5:19 am Post subject: |
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| I think all these preemptive openers are "all" bullshit because they don't take into account what the situation is. Are you in a club, church, work, school? What are their age? Are they with a group? If so, have you been validated by the head of the group? Openers don't work consistently if you don't know how to handle these situation. In order to handle these situations you must be out on the field practicing all the time. |
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tonne
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| Posted: Thu Jul 06, 2006 3:55 pm Post subject: |
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if your only way to pick up girls is to wait until a natural situation to say something occurs, then youīll wait forever. Thatīs what usually happens to me.
You have to be able to risk that her bitch shield comes up if you want any consistency in your PU. The idea is to do the opener and make her feel that EVEN IF you are probably hitting on her she canīt be 100% sure.
Thatīs what happens to me on a good day. |
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Finesse
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| Posted: Thu Jul 06, 2006 4:22 pm Post subject: |
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bitch shield comes up... means the player comes out to play...
thats all I got to say boys, I think its alot more entertaining with bitch shield up because you can really do some damage then.
Negs:
[With friends]
"what is your friend normally like this?" "why is she so rude?" "Geez I don't know how you girls put up with her" etc.
[By herself or directional neg to her]
"what, your acting like you've never had a guy talk to you before?" "wow, never met someone so uptight before loosen up and have some fun" etc.
If bitch shield keeps up, hey screw it! walk off elsewhere and show you're not a desperate AFC. In my experiences, I've had a girl come back once and apologise because she was "having a bad day".
There's so many ways, its all depending on situation (once again) but hey.. just have fun with it. Work with whatever you got. Goodluck |
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sorin93
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| Posted: Wed Nov 26, 2008 8:17 pm Post subject: |
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| good stuff i was looking for something like this |
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Chanc3
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| Posted: Wed Nov 26, 2008 8:47 pm Post subject: |
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| I think we all get to worried about opening. Most of the PUA's just say say something and go from there. If you aren't going to keep the convo interesting the PU will fail anyway. |
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V1V
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| Posted: Wed Nov 26, 2008 8:58 pm Post subject: |
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This is usually the only situational opener i will ever use.
HB dressed in red)
PUA: Wow your the third fire i have seen today. |
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