Simbachippie's "psycho" girlfriend: (probably won't read this, but here we go.)
From one woman to another:
Have you ever looked at a magazine to get makeup tips? Have you ever taken a fitness class to get in better shape? Have you ever studied other women's outfits to get a better grasp on personal style and how it affects interactions with others? Have you ever traded tips with your girl friends?
Men studying social dynamics is not about YOU. Or objectifying YOU. It's about becoming better men for you.
What these "sick retards" start to learn about is inner game (improving oneself, from the inside out.) These "sick retards" start to learn not to just demonstrate high value but to BECOME high value.
Yes. Many are lured here to learn some pickup lines. But the guys who really delve in learn how to be pretty amazing boyfriends. I know this from personal experience. I know this from YEARS of personal experience.
So open your mind
. You might be able to learn how to become a more confident human being here, too. Kinda sounds like you need it.
later edit: Mods... shouldn't this be moved to a more appropriate section? Sheesh... guys! Get with the program