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tret
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 Posted: Mon Oct 22, 2007 11:46 pm Post subject: Shit test? or simply not interested? |
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So i know this girl hb 7/8, in a set with her as my target I worked on her good friend, and gave her little attention. When she got up to leave this is the interaction that happend.
HB:(speaking to friend says) by
Friend: by
me:(to hb says) By
Hb at this point says nothing but keeps walking and blatently ignores me.
Me:( a little bit louder says) By
hb in response sounding annoyed
HB: gosh your so annoying what do you want?
Me: I was just saying by, can you say by to me?
The hb ignored me again.
Me: uhm? can you say by to me?
(sounding annoyed)HB: gosh byeee
and thats how it ended was she doing a shit test, was i simply being annoying, i just dont get it.This is one of the girls in my grade who sseems to be giving me needless shit, i pushed her buttons trying to DHV and to show that i wouldnt take no for an answer but, it didnt get anywhere after that she was just gone, and i dont want to be known to her as being this annoying dude. |
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xxIcexx
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| Posted: Tue Oct 23, 2007 12:02 am Post subject: |
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| she seems like a bitch, id move on |
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PatrickLH
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| Posted: Tue Oct 23, 2007 12:09 am Post subject: |
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| AFC move. Say bye once, and if she doesn't respond think up a neg that makes her rude. |
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Ka
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| Posted: Tue Oct 23, 2007 12:50 am Post subject: |
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Definatly AFC...next time (should never be a next time with this girl, move on) try something like.
You: "Later/Bye/Toodles."
Ignored...
You (to her friend(s)): "WoW how can you guys hang out with someone so rude..."
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You: "I think your friends hearing aide needs to be checked...either that or shes plain rude."
Either said loud enough for her to hear, said with a humourus tone.
This wasnt a shit test she is either ignorant or you did something to make her upset...maybe a neg that backfired or maybe shes jealous of the attention your giving her friend, but i doubt its jealousy.
PS: if she comes back with any response that isnt nice...
HB: 'blah blah"
YOU: "I thought you were leaving, you must have really missed me." (cut her off if she says anything other than sorry) be humorous saying this too.
disclaimer, im new just my opinion |
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saqchek
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| Posted: Tue Oct 23, 2007 1:09 am Post subject: |
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She's definitely not interested and no this wasn't a shit test....lol
I think you payed too much attention to the friend, and didn't get the target involved in the conversation. If she had been quiet, I would have negged her about being "shy" or "quiet". |
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tret
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| Posted: Tue Oct 23, 2007 11:31 pm Post subject: |
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ok well.. considering the fact that i see her everyday, is there anyway i could make up for this/get her interested?
She often ignores me when spoken to and her friend recently told me that she hates me.
My response when we were all hanging was to more or less make fun of the whole situation.
EX : her friend drew a picture with my name written on it and the girl said thas a nice picture.. except for the name.
SO later that day i gave her the picture as some sort of present while smiling, trying to make it known that i know, and that i dont rly care, but i dont want to seem so desperate.
Often times i am aroudn other girls its just idunno, something about trying to get one that has something wrong with you just gets me attracted to the challenge. |
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.EnVy.
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| Posted: Tue Oct 23, 2007 11:47 pm Post subject: |
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Sorry, bro. That was VERY
AFC of you...
What I think you should do
is forget about this one,
because it seems like you
messed up your A1 and A2
phases.
Practice some more, man.
And DONT be discouraged,
we all have failures at first.
Then, it turns to success  |
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L.A. Tripp
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| Posted: Wed Oct 24, 2007 1:35 am Post subject: |
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| tret wrote: | ok well.. considering the fact that i see her everyday, is there anyway i could make up for this/get her interested?
She often ignores me when spoken to and her friend recently told me that she hates me.
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THAT should tell you right there. MOVE ON. |
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jayd 31
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| Posted: Wed Oct 24, 2007 2:09 am Post subject: |
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| stop talking to this girl dude. It's over, it is very messed up right now and every time you talk to her, you ar DLVing ur self and at the same time DHVing her and her friends. Completely ignore her and if she talks to you, do not care. Always make sure the girl you are talking to is reacting more during the conversation than you are. |
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