she's a virgin

C-DUB · Posted: Tue Jul 24, 2007 1:21 pm Post subject: she's a virgin

okay been hanging out with this girl for a few weeks now...

we make out, and i start to take off her shirt, and she goes "oh yeah about that, i haven't really done anything before, i'm a virgin".
so me being the nice guy tells her, okay that's alright, we'll just take it slow.

everytime we hang out we make out and i lately asked her why she's a virgin (she's eighteen). she tells me "i just don't want to give it to anyone, they have to be special..."
sooo now i'm just getting kinda bored making out and wanna step it up and have some real fun with her. i know she's turned on and wants me.. it's rediculous. i've never ran into this situation before. you'd think she'd just want it just as bad as i do.

so i guess this is a slow F-close because i'm gaining her trust/comfort...
i don't know what else to ask her, or how to persuade her.

i made it clear that i was happy being single and didn't wanna be in a relationship because i am moving in a month to the city.

tips/suggestions/comments appreciated. thanks brothers

Monkey · Posted: Tue Jul 24, 2007 2:34 pm Post subject:

Take it slow. "We'll never go any further than you're comfortable with." Make it a special occasion (it should be if it's her first time), something she'll remember fondly.

Most importantly, don't be a douche-bag. Women always remember their first time, be it good or bad, and you want to leave her better than you found her. Don't push too hard, don't be a dick, and make it special for her. That means the whole nine yards: candles, dinner, soft light and romantic music. She's looking for a good experience, something she'll carry with her for the rest of her life in a positive light. Give that to her.

Strive · Posted: Tue Jul 24, 2007 4:54 pm Post subject:

I think the key is in the words she said to you, that the person has to be special. A romantic mood is great but if she isn't wowed by you as a person I don't know if it will happen. There is no doubt she wants to have sex, it's just the mood and the man have to be right so she does not feel like a slut who gave it up to just anyone.

I think she wants to know you care about her and it's more than just sex. It does not have to be true, it just needs to have the illusion of truth that she can hold on to.

DaOracle · Posted: Wed Jul 25, 2007 8:19 am Post subject:

I agree with Monkey & Strive. But you have to be sure you'll be able to handle the emotional attachment that will be aroused if she eventually allowed you to ...

If you can't, then back off!

Keep the game tight
DaOracle

Xendjin · Posted: Wed Jul 25, 2007 9:44 pm Post subject:

True what monkey says. If it happens, it gotta be all about her! period .

I've had some dealings with this issue and overcome em all, and the best tip I can give you is to play with her erogenous spots. (if you dont know these spots, [link] Xfman posted a link to some of them. dont use the lower parts so much, basically cause if she has jeans or anything the like, it might ruin the spell shes under a bit)

Gentle caressing starting with just stroking her arms, dont stroke with palm, use finger tips and as you move up or down , move them like a wave(like if you gently were to caress her body with a feather). After a while you can start moving around to other parts of her body, like go from her hand move up to shoulder, neck lips, neck, down towards her breasts , half moon circle and then other arm, moving down to belly in a while and the line of her pants. Go ontop and rub inner thighs etc etc. You get the point in taking one small step and gently escalate, at any form of hesitation from her part, just gently move on to a safer zone but come back to that spot she resisted with not to much time in between.

The basic idea is to always touch skin when you can, so you get her nervs tingling with excitement. Note that some girls may say that it tickles, then just say that its because that they dont relax enough and move to safer zone and then back again.

Also, since you are sonstantly moving your hand, the sensation will not be the same as if you would just place your hand there. Just placing a hand on 1 of her breasts might invoke discomfort, while when your moving it, she enjoys it on a whole different level, and she will be waiting for your hand to get back, so that she can feel that great sensation yet again. This will make her comply when you start going for the "BIG" zones. If you move on to her breasts and are gone before she has the time to say something, a part of her will have accepted the fact that you were there, and she will be more easy to comply the next time you get there.

Dont go down on her, atleast not at first. Just gently rub it down there and work ur magic. When you get her hot enough, she will say the words you are waiting for.

If we jump a bit back to the start again. When you start moving your fingers on her arm, smalltalk all the time. just talk about anything really. keep her mind a bit of from what you are doing and let her get accustomed to the feeling. When you start hearing her breathing really calm in deep breaths, you know that its working and you will se that you dont have to talk either, all her mind can think of will be your gentle caressing.

This sort of push/pull has never failed to get a girl aroused. Just be sure to only use this if you gonna give this girl the night of her life. Virgins should be shown some respect ... even by PUAs

C-DUB · Posted: Wed Jul 25, 2007 10:47 pm Post subject:

Thanks for the replies.

I'm definitely respectful of her and other girls.

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