she texts me this...i respond with???

Es Trois

Hey bros, so I just got back from a quick date/hangout with this girl. It was our first time hanging out together, she's been begging me to "play" ever since we first met 2-3 months ago. So we meet up for boba and she is talking alot. Hard to get any IOI's cuz she's really hyper. She suggests out of the blue we go karaoke together. Now this is weird cuz it's just going to be the two of us in our own little room. I get some beers we go there and sing, nothing special happens, I didnt' really do the kino and I didnt run any routins, just shot the shit and pretended to like the night. We say goodbye, do pull the "point to cheek and say, kiss goodbye?" and she gives me an air kiss. I get home, she texts me "I had a super fun night, thanks for everything". I text her back, "You're welcome, you're my new favorite." (she knows I mean it in a C&F way, but then a few minutes later, she says, "I just realized something really unimportant but smart, you forgot to get your milktea boba (because thats what i told her i wanted when we first met up tonight). She didnt have to text me that last msg, but i guess she's still thinking of me its already 1pm, should i go for another neg/c&f kinda text or ignore her etc, any tips? she's an hb 8.

oh and on another note, she kept saying things like, "omg we're twins, we're perfect soulmates" "we're gonna be bestfriends" all ngiht long, because of the fact that we had so much in common and she is like so into me. wtf am i suppoed to say to respond to that...

ajberry · Posted: Fri Feb 22, 2008 11:30 am Post subject:

She is trying to get you to ask her out again. This could be because you did your C&F line. It's a good thing, but she's just trying to ensure that she IS your favourite.

You need to play it cool. I would go for a c&f one again, but maybe trying to transistion a time to arrange next meetup.

something like: "Well, i'll have to see if I can find time to come over and get it".

This DHV's, as you have lots to do, and also means that she has to work that little bit harder to set it up.

It sounds as if she's into you alot, so you could probably go straight for the "Lets meet on Thursday" line, and, from what you've posted, would do so. But I would still go for the c&f a bit more yet.

Promox · Posted: Fri Feb 22, 2008 1:07 pm Post subject:

I alspo believ that a C/F should be the best move right now. You don't want her to think you are to avaible Smile

Es Trois · Posted: Fri Feb 22, 2008 10:35 pm Post subject:

thanks guys, your quick response is really really well appreciated

Es Trois · Posted: Sat Feb 23, 2008 12:41 am Post subject:

Oh yea, one more note, this girl paid for our karaoke bill, $25, that's alot. What does that mean when she insisted to pay and even pushed my money away when I pretended to slip it in her purse...

Neco · Posted: Fri Feb 29, 2008 3:47 pm Post subject: Oooo

It sounds like u only have limited time to make a move or be relegated to the FRIEND ZONE, if it was me i'd get her on a date asap doesnt matter where u go, when she starts talkin loads put ur finger on her lips and say shh take her by the hand twirl her then pull her in close dont be afraid to REALLY pull her hard kiss her then sit back down and say wat were u talkin about she'll melt if its ment to b

collegeguy07 · Posted: Fri Feb 29, 2008 9:26 pm Post subject:

Yeah $25 is a lot for a girl to pay for that early. She is investing in you which is a really good thing. In my opinion, you can play this however you want because you have her completely hooked. However, I do agree that you need to kiss her soon, but I don't think you will be killed if you don't. My only question is, why haven't you kissed her yet?

HUSTEVE · Posted: Sat Mar 01, 2008 3:20 pm Post subject: your in

your getting plenty of IOI's and she's responding to your C/F. I would definetly arrange another meetup and go in for the kill..

Mr. Perfect · Posted: Tue Mar 04, 2008 9:31 pm Post subject:

you need to build more kino..because your on the verge of gettin stuk in the friend zone..once your there its haard to get out buddy...

Risen · Posted: Wed Mar 05, 2008 6:07 pm Post subject:

Yea dude, I agree with Mr.P up above. You need to start kinoing and some sort of sexual escalation, otherwise ur gonna be LJBF. Girls always say stuff that can be interpreted by us to be that they like us, but they just dont work that way. Just make sure you add some good kinoing and make sure you escalate asap. Good luck!

Es Trois · Posted: Mon Mar 10, 2008 9:32 am Post subject:

haha alright guys, i love the responses, i totally agree with my need to escalate kino, but dont kill me for telling you i havent met up with her since the first night...HOWEVER, i plan to soon. Anyway, the real reason for this post is to get some feedback on what you guys think about this: She's been texting me randomly during the last week, she'll say stuff like, "Hey my love, i miss you". Or "lets hang out soon luv?". What is up with the sweet talk on her part...is she being flirty/serious or flirty/sarcastic, let me know if you guys have got this situation before! wth do i say back

icebreaker · Posted: Wed Mar 12, 2008 2:37 am Post subject:

I really think shes needy. Shes trying to escalate to like a relationship. She wants to put out but wants a commitment from you. If you play your cards right she will let you put your dick in or around her mouth.

mOlis_pir3s · Posted: Wed Mar 12, 2008 2:55 am Post subject:

icebreaker · Posted: Wed Mar 12, 2008 3:12 am Post subject:

Im really struggling with my girl because its been two weeks. I still havent gotten her to hang out with me.. She responds to some of my text messages. It spawned from meeting her at the bar. She wasn't sloppy or anything. She invited me hiking. Told her i never had been. Invited me to go hiking mt lemon with her in tucson here one day. I said id be thrilled. Based this whole thing on hiking. Ive noticed she responds mostly to my hiking messages. I know where she works but from experiance i know that showing up looks needy. Though i cant say the thought hasnt crossed my mind. I'd just like to take up this hiking trip and work my game from there. I dont want to continue texting with game. I just think that its about time to give up on this girl.

Any advice?

Juice24 · Posted: Wed Mar 12, 2008 7:45 am Post subject:

Id say hit her up seldomly and keep her in the contacts you never know.

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