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Numen
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 Posted: Wed Sep 12, 2007 3:13 am Post subject: She currently has a boyfriend. I need some advice |
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I posted about this when i first joined and it's still baffling me. The girl I like has a boyfriend and has more than hinted that she likes me too and that she's not just ready to leave him.
If somebody has the time to give me some advice and the personal experience and success please try me on AIM (my screen name is bobster5000).
This is not a girl I'd prefer to just hook up with but one I'd like to date
Thanks ahead of time to all of you who can help out |
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| Posted: Wed Sep 12, 2007 4:18 am Post subject: |
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I have the same thing going on right now...with a girl that has a boyfriend and im trying to get it...i think its going pretty well
*Side note* i was hooking up with an engaged girl for about a year so i have some experience with it 
Also there is a lot of information on this site i would go to the search button and try it out there is great stuff there.
Basically don't be too desperate...in the case of girls with boyfriends i think you need to throw out more negs ad ignore the girl more in order to make her question the relationship she is in. However DO NOT talk shit about the current boyfriend. Some small jokes here and there are ok but if you do it on a constant basic she will defend him more and turn on you. In fact i think that you should act as though you don't really care that she has a boyfriend, kinda pretend he doesn't exist. Maybe act a little cocky i know ive said in a cocky/joking way if shes said something like i have a boyfriend maybe say something like "You act like i care" or "its alright youll come around." Also if your out to the clubs and her boyfriend is not there...say maybe you and a friends and the girl and some of her friends...make her feel jelous. If shes "taken" and sees you having a great time with other girls and flirting she will think to herself "they are having all this fun and here i am stuck with one man and its preventing me from doing the same" (At least something liek that lol) |
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Pickitup
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| Posted: Wed Sep 12, 2007 4:21 am Post subject: |
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| pm me if you want...it would be cool to try different things and see how they will work or not work. Im probably going to see this girl within the few days at least the weekend so...good luck |
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Numen
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| Posted: Wed Sep 12, 2007 6:22 am Post subject: |
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| thanks dude. I will later as i'm moving to a new house right now. the main thing that's different about this girl vs the others with boyfriends i've hooked up with is she is the only girl i've met who not only can beat me in a battle of wits but can outgame and outneg me. this has never happened in my life and is another reason why i want her. gotta go though as she just IMed me |
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