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| Popcorn Sutton || |
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I'm going to make this as brief as possible. This applies to everyone and anyone you decide to use it on. It's designed to help you achieve a strategic advantage.
The frontal filter consists of-
If you should ever catch yourself DLV or INSULT, forget that behavior or utterance immediately.
The 4 categories to identify a DLV and INSULT-
Knowing these 4 categories will help you avoid saying or doing anything that will cause the interlocutor to respond to you poorly. Don't do or say anything that demonstrates them.
The 2 categories that are there by default or result from the right amount of insults and DLV's-
No time to invest
No interest in you
The game may be over before it has begun. Not your fault, not your problem. Recover swiftly from this rejection or else your plans may be foiled.
2nd point of contact-
The operator directs your attention to the proper response given the input. It could take your attention to the Primal Maneuvers or to the Strategic Advantage System.
Primal Maneuvers (demonstrate these or a subset of them and you guarantee attraction)-
Protector of loved ones
Willingness to emote
Leader of men
Note that there is one more fringe primal maneuver. I suggest you stay away from it because of how risky and dangerous it is. That maneuver is-
Willingness to walk away
Strategic Advantage System-
There are 4 known mutually exclusive paths for a relationship to go after you achieve attraction. Those paths are as follows-
Build comfort- leads to seduction
Build likeability- leads to popularity
Build rapport- leads to respect.
Poor judgement- leads to failure.
People typically have a default Strategic Advantage System. Mine is likeability.
There you have it. Beyond that, there are the stipulations that are not a part of the system but exist to govern the entire process. Always be aware of them. Those stipulations are as follows-
The 4 to 10 hour rule-
the System must be played out and lead to a final result in the Strategic Advantage System within 4 to 10 hours of interaction with your interlocutor. If you achieve this before 4 hours it indicates that your dealing with a fool. After 10 hours and it's going to be very difficult to recover; it's a guarantee that you will never achieve alpha status.
The 3 second rule-
Speak to your target within 3 seconds of them being aware of your existence. I, personally, hate this but also know the power of using it. All the cells in your body will be screaming no, but in most cases it results in the system just being easier to pull off.
Always let them have this. Create it for them and yourself in any way possible because it's the best defense mechanism you can have barring brilliant coping skills. If you're trying to build rapport and achieve respect, tone this down tremendously.
LMR (Last Minute Resistance)-
You'll get this pretty often, especially when you're trying to seduce your target. The trick is that if you sense that it will happen (it's not easily predicted) then you have to beat them to it. You be the one demonstrating LMR. If you do that then they won't, which gives you a work around in order to achieve your strategic advantage.
Never contradict yourself and never behave in a way that is abnormal and/or goes against your moral code, standards, and core beliefs. Please note that sometimes you have to step outside of your comfort zone as well to achieve new behaviors which may result in incongruence. If you're going to step out of your comfort zone, do it in a place that is inconsequential to your day to day life. Very important.
It's also very important that you learn as quickly as possible how to not give a fuck as well. You have to believe it and it has to be congruent with your behavior. This is the most powerful advantage you will have in any situation so let it become a part of you.
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