Thank you all or your replys, especially yours eddie, that was very helpfull.so i take it that im to follow my gut and if i feel like shes being disrespectful or is pulling way, i should do the same.and if she's being affectionate i do the same? And is it ok to let a girl know it bothers me when she pulls away or should i simply pull away and act like i havent noticed?
So basically what you're saying is " I'll let her be my leader and i'll will react vindictively like her toward everything she does" - Sounds just like the girl in the relationship.
And it all depends on why its bothering you. Thats something you should figure out on your own first before you bring it to anyones attention. Does it bother you because you don't have much going on and spend most of your time thinking about her? Or does it bother you because you require more affection or attention from your partner to be content in a monogamous relationship? Or something else.. If its the latter then it needs to be brought to no ones attention but your own. If its the other, bringing it to her attention is of low use. It's up to you to figure out "what can be done about it" and bring it to her attention with a solution you think could improve it for you both. You don't just want to bitch and complain about her. You want to inform her of you, and instruct her(if she doesn't know) on how she could better accommodate your needs.
And if you still find her to be incapable, then you make want to be a bit more selective before making commitments.
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