Yo,

I want to break up my current relationship. But I don't want to hurt this girl.
So I want some tips for a "good" break up. So she is able to be understanding and that kind of.things.

“It’s not you, it’s me”

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

Nothing worse than staying in a relationship you know is done simply because you don't want to 'cause' further pain to your partner.

By continuing it you'll only make matters more difficult.

Simply tell her you're not feeling it anymore and its time to move forward, separately.

Ya it'll hurt, but would you rather endure and have the hurt continue on both ends?

You're gonna hurt her anyway, so face it.

A few tips are:
- do it face to face, in a calm place where you can leave whenever (i.e. not your place).
- start straight away by stating that you want both of you to split paths, you don't want to beat around the bush. Better to jump in the cold water that walk in super slow.
- if she asks for reasons, instead of blaming her (you don't show me enough affection, you're too immature, I don't like our sex...), explain the reasons as differences (we are too different in how we show our love, we have different character). Even if that means you gotta twist the truth a bit.
- avoid harsh or negative words, don't mention other girls.
- if she starts throwing a tantrum or blaming you, just leave.

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We do what we have to do in order to do what we want to do.

how about this. just came at the top of my head

I don't love you the way you love me....

my love is toxic for you...

any way she is going to get hurt and she is going to start crying or she is going to slap you!
I would rather the slap than the crying

That's exactly what I'm pointing at where I say avoid negative statements and adjectives. Thanks for the examples.

Also lol at the crying and slapping. Never been slapped, and had about only half cases of girls crying, the other half being silent/ok with it.

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We do what we have to do in order to do what we want to do.

my friend broke with his gf the other day at the night club and she is a brave one she sucker slap my friend
torn down the nice button shirt she gave him and she went on her way with her head up security guards were cracking up myself too at the end went ok my friend was pissed to get sentimental about the breaking
we kept drinking, that's where I got the I'd rather the slap lol! all went we can say "smooth"