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As a result of relationships being complex situations, to get a response you need a structured question. Here is an example of a neatly structured question, borrowed from an old post:
Girl is a HB10, and 11 by her personality. Bust-your-balls attitude, funny, cultured, and incredibly mature for her age(we're 19). A certain beer company has signed her on to do modeling. She auditioned for Playboy but I'm not sure if it's finalized. She's a natural born PUA and since I've recently began to invest my time into the forum I've noticed that subconsciously she does everything that we aspire to do. I love the idea of having to outsmart this girl.
Her and I dated for about 8 months. Fucking awesome. After our first year of college, this year, she decided she was going to move in with her sister and go to a completely different college for a semester or a year. I went up there for the summer with her, and as it's been stated we get lazy and comfortable. I did. I lost her respect and she didn't envy me, nor did she really want to have sex with me. Thank God she likes who I am as a person. We broke up and I've returned to college. She dated a guy and told me everything he was and what he did for her, and why she liked it so much. I'm convinced he's a PUA. Anyway, while gaming her on the phone(and I think it was due in part to the fact that I found another girl, fucked her, and then told my girlfriend about it) I some how got my girlfriend BACK and we're living 500 miles apart, and only communicate by phone. We text this week because she's in the Bahamas. Also, she's returning in December or April. (first semester or second semester)
I want my power over this girl to return. As you guys have observed I'm an AFC big time.
Side Note: Since I obviously can't talk to the girl in person, this is entirely done by phone and by text. I've created a rule that if she doesn't reply after 3 text messages I don't say anything to her for the rest of the day to prevent looking needy. Do you think she's manipulating me with this?
I've realized that C&F is a bad idea. I'm now just trying to subconsciously convince her that I chose her, that I decided to be with her. I'm calling her by names like little girl, girlie, baby girl, and etc. I'm confident with her on the phone, and I neg her here and there. She gives me good feedback, but it all seems futile. She is beyond anything I can think of.
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